I know the OW will one day be one of us but why do I feel she is to blame too?
I know the OW will one day be one of us but why do I feel she is to blame too?
I've never met the infamous OW. I've only seen her name pop up frequently on his cell phone, I've heard friends talk about who his new woman is, and now after only 3 months of him knowing her, he last told me (before I went NC) that he's in a serious relationship with her. Now, I was with that man for years, gave him a son and after all that I cannot say with confidence that he and I were ever in a serious relationship, or at least serious on his part.
Sometimes I can't comprehend how a woman can get involved with a man who just had a child with someone else a few months ago (without wondering if there are any lingering feelings) or can begin dating him while he was living with another woman and their child. I once dated a man who had a 4 year old son and after meeting his son and seeing how he missed his father, I stopped dating him and encouraged him to work things out with the mother, if possible, for the child's sake because that is the way I was raised... to always put the children first.
Back to my story: From what I've heard, she is recently divorced with no children and though I don't know what the circumstances were of her divorce, how can a woman jump into a relationship with a man knowing his circumstances (and yes, she does know he has a child under 6 months of age)? Now, they are in a long distance relationship (over 3,000 miles apart and fly to see each other every weekend) but does it ever dawn on her that while he is spending time with her EVERY week, he is away from his child? Now, I am not saying he is daddy dearest because he is not AT ALL but are the other women ever to blame too for the discarding process?
OW clouds your thinking
Very well said Portia. I was
Loren
I was 15 when I met my narc..
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I agree with this
I have absolutely no pity for
Wow.
Thank you! And thanks for
Loren
Janie53
Loren
It's easy to place blame on the OW...
Exactly what TNR said. And I
You hit the nail on the head, Sparrow
I love your "Etch a Sketch"
I agree with spinning. You
Coming to terms........
He lies to her the way he
Hey Loren.. She is
Loren, I wouldn't waste too much
spinning
I am still new here but from what I keep reading here
I've told this before, but