I know I should have seen this coming
I know I should have seen this coming
Over the last couple of years I've made a long-distance friend who I see occasionally, and in fact I met up with him only a few weeks ago.
And last night I noticed (on the social website we're all on) that he had spent some time with The Ice Queen of Narcnia. I do recall that Narc Boy had mentioned that he knew this guy but I'd seen no real evidence of any deep friendship, and I suppose when all is said and done, it still doesn't look like a deep friendship but it still makes me feel uncomfortable.
I don't want this friend ending up as some unwitting stool pigeon and I spent a certain amount of time feeling very angry about it all. I know I'm not justified in feeling angry that this guy can't see Narc Boy for what he really is, because I didn't see Narc Boy for what he really is myself. It wouldn't be fair to expect that. And I know if I tell him what's happened, it'll either lead to more dealings with Narc Boy when he gets pissed off that I've wrecked his friendship, or this friend will see it as none of his concern, or worse he'll think I'M the one with the problem.
I suppose it's the first time I've seen a friendship affected by the "shadow of the narc" and it's left me feeling disconcerted.
PP
I don't think Narc Boy's even
PP
Urgh. Said friend just listed
It won't go the way you want it to
Friends of the Narc
If your long distance friend
Good for you