I know Contact = Pain

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#1 Jan 14 - 5PM
Movingforwardnow
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I know Contact = Pain

So in further discussion with my sister...I ahve found out that the exN has forwarded her all email conversations between us to further validate his impression that I am crazy. So....heres my email to the asshat: (not going to send it but want to)

Mark the Narc,

I have been trying to decide wether or not I respond to the fact that you contacted my sister. This is what I am going to do regarding that......Since you felt it appropriate to forward emails to my sister (and believe me she was not surprised by anything you sent her, she already knew it all and told you ahe didn't just to play your game....she has been on my side for more than a year. She only put up with you because I did...she doesn't like or respect you and always thought you were no good for the boys...truth hurts, huh?) You statred this game and I am now a player..... I am going to play your game. I have NOT emailed your boss, your friends or your family...but now I am going to play your sick game and press send. They will all know the truth. Since you felt it neccessary for my sister to know the truth it's only fair that your support system knows the truth as well. This includes the picture of you signing your employees boob. Remember that???? I have the picture. YOU WILL BE FIRED! I also have the emails from when you solicited men off Craigs List so you could give them oral sex...you know that ones where you stated "YOU LIKE TO SWALLOW?" I got those and am now forwarding all of that to friends, employees, employers and family. You will NOT win! Not today, not ever! You have fucked with the wrong chick! I also will be forwarding each and every threatening email you have ever sent to me. You don't have any idea who you are f-ing with. I have saved all of them for four years. I am NOT stupid. I know you think I am, but I am not! I also have pictures of every bruise and black eye I have ever received from you. I will attach the pictures to the emails. Good riddance and goodbye!

Jan 14 - 6PM
janemarie
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This letter is good....Id

This letter is good....Id like to copy it and send it to mine...but as Lisas step say...the letters are for our benefit...not to send...which I know your not gonna do, just like my letters are in my possession.... You are GETTING IT OUT!!! And what better place to do it but here where we all can relate, understand and yell Fuck You with ya!!!! Im glad you plan on talking to Goldie...you will feel so much better afterwards! xoxo
Jan 14 - 6PM (Reply to #20)
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Janemarie

I need to talk with her sooner than later. I am not going to make it
Jan 14 - 6PM (Reply to #21)
janemarie
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Just do it...the first time

Just do it...the first time is a buy one get one so instead of jsut one hour you get 2....it's worth every penny
Jan 14 - 6PM (Reply to #22)
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janemarie

I did it! I already apid and am now just waiting to find out when. Soon, i hope!
Jan 14 - 6PM (Reply to #23)
janemarie
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Excellent!!!!! You are

Excellent!!!!! You are beginning to move forward....Do you feel it?!?! ((HUGS))
Jan 14 - 5PM
ruby01 (not verified)
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Ouch!

Please stay NC and don't give him anything to work with. You exposed him to his sister and revenge is their specialty. It's always best to "keep your hands in your own pockets"
Jan 14 - 5PM (Reply to #18)
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ruby01

I did not email anyone, you misunderstood. He is the one mailing everyone. Character Assinantion. I ahven't done a thing...and am not going to. I am just fired up right now...hurting and in pain.
Jan 14 - 5PM (Reply to #6)
Movingforwardnow
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i did no such thing!

He emailed MY sister. I ahven't emailed anyone! I did NOT do that, he did. I am not the disordred one, he is. i am the hurt, and in pain one!
Jan 14 - 5PM (Reply to #10)
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Don't worry Movingforwardnow,

Don't worry Movingforwardnow, I partially exposed N to his boss, the organization and also to acquaintances of his, he's known for 25 years. They all believed us. Then my husband wrote him an email, saying IF he threatens me, slanders me, etc we will explore every avenue available to us... He is scared. So be it. Don't worry who you've told. Diddums can go buy himself a dummy... I'm right behind you X B
Jan 14 - 6PM (Reply to #17)
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I wish...

I wish someone got it enough to stick up for me so I didn't have tos tick up for myself. You are lucky you have a husband who sttod up for you! I want that! I want someone to tell him to leave me and my family alone!
Jan 14 - 5PM (Reply to #11)
bgirl
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PS: you don't need to justify

PS: you don't need to justify ANYTHING to anyone anymore especially him...
Jan 14 - 5PM (Reply to #12)
Movingforwardnow
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I AM DONE!

I can't do it anymore. This mand has abused me, controlled me, manipulated me, took advantage of me, and I am done playing nice or playing the victim. That is not who I am or who I ever have been. i always have been strong and confident and in control of my emotions. He has ruined me and I am not putting up with it for another minute, I can't! It is absolutely KILLING ME!
Jan 14 - 5PM (Reply to #13)
bgirl
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Buy a Piñata and beat the

Buy a Piñata and beat the crap out of it. :) Fill it with your favourite lolls and then eat the lot. It might help... :-) B
Jan 14 - 6PM (Reply to #14)
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bgirl

Thanks for trying....right now nothing is working I am acting as crazy as he always made me. I am hurting, bawling and in pain. He has no idea what he fucking did to me, he has ruined me. My thoughts, feelings or opinions never mattered and they don't right now and I am just so angry......I give up!
Jan 14 - 6PM (Reply to #15)
aquabella
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He hasn't ruined you, my

He hasn't ruined you, my sweet friend, you're still here and your thoughts, feelings and opinions matter to us, your kids, and most importantly to you. Scream as hard as you can into a pillow or beat the shit out of an inanimate object with said pillow until you're sweating and red in the face. It is good to feel and express this anger, just don't mess around with him through emails or contact. His capacity for evil and revenge is much greater than yours...because you are normal, he is not. Want to meet for coffee tomorrow? I'm totally open, just let me know what works for you and I'll be there. xoxo Lynn
Jan 14 - 6PM (Reply to #16)
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aquabella

Tomorrow will work..however I need someone tonight as well. I am a wreck and don't know If I can take much more of this shit. I am done! I need/want to tell him off!
Jan 14 - 5PM (Reply to #7)
ruby01 (not verified)
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I'm so sorry

I realized what you were saying and tried to delete my comment, but I couldn't. My bad!
Jan 14 - 5PM (Reply to #8)
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ruby01

It's ok. I am just pissed right now and that is exactly what he wanted. He wants me to react and I am not going to let him know I am reacting. I will post it here instead. For four motherfucking years I reacted to his hsit and it always got turned around and i was the crazy one. He held that against me for four years. he beat me, took advantage of me, belittled me, abused me, and he always came out on top...NOT THIS TIME>>>NEVER AGAIN! I am pissed and hurting and crying but he will never know!
Jan 14 - 5PM (Reply to #9)
ruby01 (not verified)
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That's Perfect!

:) Well done!
Jan 14 - 5PM
bgirl
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Sheesh!,, are you really

Sheesh!,, are you really going to do all that? X B
Jan 14 - 5PM (Reply to #4)
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bgirl

No. Instead I jsut paid for a one on oen with Goldie. I am taking the high road here...but it's hard!
Jan 14 - 5PM (Reply to #2)
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bgirl

No...that would jsut be supply for him and exactly what he is looking for...but I want to!
Jan 14 - 5PM (Reply to #3)
bgirl
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Lol phew...I was like far

Lol phew...I was like far out... But I was pumped just reading it :) fired me up too :D X B