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I knew it - twice in 2 days!!

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#1 Jun 19 - 11PM
JMi
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I knew it - twice in 2 days!!

Can you believe it!!

I saw him and OW (my ex friend) at a Kings of Leon concert last night - thats twice in 2 days i've seen them what the hell is God trying to do to me?

Out of 50,000 people i manage to see the weasel and the limpet!

Spent the night in tears, didn't enjoy the concert coz i couldn't stop thinking of them! :(

He looked really well and it hurts bad

Jun 20 - 10AM
Hunter
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This used to happen to me all

This used to happen to me all the time! Him and the OW, sucked! I did get my revenge, he D&D her in public, I went up to her, she was in tears, ( ok I have an evil streak ) I said" told u so" it really was a shining moment! That bitch shoved it up my ass so many times she deserved it! HA! Patience my friend! Hunter
Jun 21 - 5AM (Reply to #8)
Lobo555
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Ah, to have such a moment!

Or to never see CharlieSheenWinning or NewWinningWife again EVER. I'd take either/or. :)
Jun 20 - 5AM
Lobo555
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How awful! :(

I feel bad you had to see them and totally understand your reaction. What a nasty sighting! I dread the day I see CharlieSheenWinning and NewWinningWife. Blurgh. Do something you love, talk to people who care about you and love you. The narc and girlfriend going to be around, unfortunately. But someday probably sooner than later, she'll be the one crying and you will be the one who has moved on. Sightings are a huge trigger and are awful. But that moment has passed and now you can focus on whatever will make you feel better. {{{hugs}}}
Jun 20 - 4AM
Sparrow
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So sorry that you have to

So sorry that you have to endure this..........I don't know what I would do under the circumstances. Were you with friends? Did they understand and try to help you? Remember, she is his next victim! Keep that in your head at all times.
Jun 20 - 5PM (Reply to #2)
JMi
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It was very difficult and

It was very difficult and yeas i'm trying to remember like you all say - she will be next his past behaviour predicts his future But god he looked good and she did too and they were happy and smiling and carefree - its a kick in the balls He was with mutual friends who i think perhaps i'll distance myslef from now on I just want to see him and feel nothing - indifference!
Jun 20 - 5PM (Reply to #3)
Hunter
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JMI

:( I think you need to get out of Dodge for a short trip. YOu deserve a bit of fun. Think about it. Hunter
Jun 20 - 5PM (Reply to #4)
JMi
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Hunter Have been working

Hunter Have been working freelance and moving around the UK quite a bit and when i am away from home i relax and find it easier to function, its almost like i can pretend he doesn't exist anymore but then this isn't healthy surely. I want to be able to look back on memories and good parts my life in which he was involved The last few D&Ds were big ones and both times i left the country and 'ran away' from the reality, i couldn't face my life at home without him - i'm so close with my family and i have some fantastic friends its such a shame he holds such control still even tho we are over My dad was saying today i have to take control back and move on with my life as he sure as hell is moving along nicely with his!! The last time we spoke N said we were bad for eachother and dragging eachother down - he pretty much sucked all life out of me and left me a shell of who i am so yeah i probably was a bad influence in some ways but i really believe had i not met my N i would be living a very different life. As it stands i'm in debt, living with my folks again and jobless. He is thriving!! Just having a bad few weeks i think and need to stop avoiding what i feel and deal with it! Thankyou for your concern :) x
Jun 20 - 6PM (Reply to #5)
Hunter
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JMI

Nice guy, I feel your pain, i Hope they all get what they deserve in the end. You just have to keep moving forward. When I was young He was in my face with his GF all the time. If not him his mother would stalk me. I got to a point that I just ignored him and went about my business. If I was on a date however he would make my life miserable. The more I think about it, he really is a rotten Son of a Bitch. The best part is when I reconnected he told me he was hurting as much as I was. He changed and wasn't like that anymore. Ha. Dumb me. Be Strong Hunter