I JUST WISH !

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#1 Apr 15 - 3AM
candy
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I JUST WISH !

dontcha just wish you could make them feel what you are feeling, lost, hurt,broken, worthless, ect ... its not fair they can just move on and we are left devastated, and we are left in bits ! ...... I pity any woman who gets involved with my narc, wish we could name and shame the bastards,..

THEY ARE SCUM OF THE EARTH ! ........ candy x

Apr 15 - 8AM
kgirl
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They are miserable....look

They are miserable....look how hard they have to work to cover that up. I think it would be exhausting to be a narc....never comfortable in your own skin. They don't even have their own skin....they are chameleons! You can shame him by going on better than ever after him...leave him in the dust :) Stength, peace and hugs for you! ~KG
Apr 15 - 7AM
skystar
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Under the facade, the Narc is

Under the facade, the Narc is miserable. Constantly search for instant gratification. They don't care what we feel or need as long as their cares/needs are met. Again - they love what we can do for them. Mine is really pushing the Silent Treatment/You contact me. He speaks to me through friends. "My phone works, she call call me and tell me where to find it." I do find myself longing for that great guy he created. You know the one who doesn't exist. That's the one I want. Not the one who occupies the same space with the one I want.
Apr 15 - 6AM
onwithmylife
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Candy

I feel just like you do, espially early on, but my gut tells me he is truly miserable, he has been depressed for years and some years ago he wrote me a letter saying I brought him some of the happiest times of his life and that I believe was a glimpse of the truth to him. He has to be miserable,no one to love or care if he lives or dies, sad and pathetic.
Apr 15 - 5AM
Deidre40
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They are lost in a sea of

They are lost in a sea of pain. I know what you are feeling...but, for a human being to treat people with such disdain and disregard as these people do...they HAVE to be hurting. They have needs that you nor I can ever meet. They are irreversibly disordered. When you start viewing it more like that...you can find pity for him. It is hard because their disorder directly involved inflicting pain on all of us here. But, that IS the disorder. lol I am glad that I am finally able to talk about this without crying. I was a mess on Wednesday!! I know your pain though. Not one of us here can't relate. But, believe me. They are quite an unhappy lot. {{hugs}}