I just tested my N and here's the note I received
I just tested my N and here's the note I received
okay fine. I just tested my N. We had this supposedly great weekend that I guess he must of created because he told me he loved me for the first time. I asked him if he could take a day off for 'me' in the future. He has only taken days off for his son. This was his loving response to me.
from my N -
What is your problem? I can't believe how you were able to find some things to start bitching about even before you drove away last night.
Now the accusations start flying and I'm already sick of it. There was/is no secret about this weekend. I didn't tell you about the upcoming weekend just because Tammy said something about it. You mentioned it and I told you what I was thinking. Why is there supposedly some sort of secret in that? Why is there something insidious about that? Jesus.. I figured that we would talk about it this week and work out a plan.
BUT, because it does not fit your view of how things SHOULD be, you go off accusing me and acting like a complete ass. You start doling out situations where I can't please you so that you can start going off bitching at me.
With regard to vacation time.. I only have three weeks a year now. I've spent over a week already. I still have to deal with holidays and oh by the way, the people here are already pissed that I've taken so much time off. So I have to deal with that. Now I have to deal with you acting like this because I can't take time off. As usual, no ability at all to understand. No ability at all to even try to understand that there might be things that are behind the scenes that you don't know about. Nope. You just go off and start your usual routine of bitching, accusing and treating me like shit.
Thanks a lot. According to you, things would be better and that you would behave differently if I help to try to make you feel secure. I did that this weekend and I dare you to find fault with ANYTHING that I did this weekend except try to please you and make you happy and to have a good time.
But that doesn't stop you does it? No. Not at all. You lie again about 'Things will be better' or 'I will be better and I won't do that again if we just have another chance'. Lies.
Why don't you just go ahead and steal my phone or hack into my email account to dig up something you can use to put the blame on me. That's the only thing that's missing from this stupid situation.
Thanks for fucking up a nice weekend and a nice time.
I really appreciate that.
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