I hate what that MFing NARC did to me and my life!!!!!

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#1 Feb 17 - 8PM
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I hate what that MFing NARC did to me and my life!!!!!

I was very vibrant and happy. He came in because he wanted a piece of the action. I was busy with my little girl, hung out with friends, finally out of the haze of my first husband. I had myself together. I looked beautiful everyday. My hair and makeup flawless. I was happy again. He lied and played and mirrored everything. See ladies I wasn't with this man everyday of the week so it was easy for him to put on a facade and keep it going without me being suspicious. About a year after we started dating we got married. two months into the marriage the OW contacted me on facebook. It was down hill from there. He left me a total of 3 times. The third time I didn't fight it. I went NC right away. He left me like I was a DOG and went to TINA! Of course his family tells me after he left me for her that he used to leave TINA when he was with her years ago.. He even left her (moved out) while she was at work. She came home and he had BOUNCED on her. But she with him now. what an idiot. I don't want him but I'm mad about how I pray, live right and he got away with abusing me scott free. We know alot of the same people and he ruined my reputation. He told them that he left me because I was a lunatic. He lied and told them that I take medication for being bipolar. He is such an asshole. He didn't tell them how he damaged my property before he left or how he rode me on the expressway saying that if i didn't sign the divorce papers he would kill us both or how he sent me a email on the day of our divorce calling me black and ugly or even how he sent a text to my daughter(Mine not by him) threatening to get me fired the day of our divorce. He didn't tell those lunatic things that he did! But ladies......what keeps me sane is the fact that I WENT NC AND STAYED NC! I DIDN'T EVEN GO TO MY DIVORCE HEARINGS! I HIRED A LAWYER TO GO FOR ME! I NEVER EVEN RESPONDED TO THAT IGNORANT ASS EMAIL. NOR DID I RESPOND TO THAT TEXT HE SENT MY DAUGHTER! He hasn't seen me since that dreadful car ride where he threatened my life. That was may 2012. GOOD LUCK TINA U GOT YOUR MAN BACK BOO!

Feb 17 - 9PM
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Sky

Feb 17 - 8PM
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What you went through is

Feb 17 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
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Thanks ladies, sometimes I

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Sky