I had a weird dream last night...

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#1 Sep 19 - 3AM
imabloke
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I had a weird dream last night...

My dream... I was a child in a room downstairs asleep.. i heard some heavy footsteps upstairs... i woke up feeling not scared but apprehensive... then the footsteps started coming down the stairs to where i was. I awoke (in reality) with a start and it felt as though someone was in my room, literally! I live on my own and yes this has bothered me, as the dream was so profound.

I haven't had a dream like that since i was a kid.
Thing is, her (my ex) friends have been a bit more friendly than usual. I haven't seen or heard from her for about 15 weeks now.
Maybe this is part of the process - to have surreal dreams.

Has anyone else experienced weird/profound - as though someone is trying to tell you something - dreams?

Sep 19 - 3PM
imabloke
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Thanks for all your comments...

I have thought about this most of the day... Its the hoovering - i think - her using friends to make me think about her.. and its working i suppose... You know the picture that Lisa uses 'its all about him' she looks that her (my ex) as a cartoon character... I definitely don't look like him tho... lol
Sep 19 - 9AM
jaycee
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i had a weird dream

imablok, i too had a very weird dream last night. i dreamed i was sleeping on the couch and i heard the kitchen sink running and i got up to see, and there was my hN doing the dishes, as he used too. he turned and said, hi mama, as he always had,,he had a big smile on his face, and it was if he were still here and i hadnt kicked him out. it brought tears to my eyes and he said, why are you crying, and i couldnt talk, i just cried and he hugged me. just another part of my illusion i am missing, the illusion of the man i wanted him to be, the one he pretended to be. how heavy my heart is right now, how sad that will never be again. i wash the dishes myself now, and cry because the one thing about his illusionary man, was he cooked everynight and cleaned the dishes all the time, now he is doing that for her. oh my heart aches with saddness. wish sometimes, i didnt throw him out and still had my illusion, but in reality i know he would continue his serial cheating his lying and him manipulation, and i would end up alone anyway. dreams sometimes make us so sad..........jaycee

Jaycee

Sep 19 - 9AM (Reply to #4)
imabloke
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Jaycee

Yes it does make us sad... but we are grieving an illusion. The relationship was and is never going to be ok or right or this or that.. it will always end badly. I'm beginning to get it now and accept it for what it is or was. But as the other posts suggest and i think they're right, its part of the healing process our sub con' is connecting to our con' if you know what i mean. Which is good thing because we need to listen to our sub con' it gives us our gut feelings. I know that my ex is not good at the mo... I went to a social last nite. A friend of hers didn't turn up because her 'friend' needed some 'company' she wasn't good. That info didn't need to get to me but it did. Now i know i could be reading into these things but with what's been happening lately with her mates and me hmmm... all seems a bit sus'. Perhaps my sub con is warning me to just be careful what you say and who you say it too.
Sep 19 - 9AM (Reply to #5)
Used
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imabloke

yes that is what your subconcious is saying!!!, they will recruit anyone to pass on "how they are doing", and you will never know the truth if she is having a bad time or not,or boogieing the night away with her missing freind. they will feed any crap to anyone, as long as it gets back to you, and they can be in your head again, and you feeling sorry for her would suit her fine. dont let her f..k up your life anymore than she has done.....as long as they think they live in your head... they exsist.
Sep 19 - 6AM
iAmMINE
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helpful?

A link to interpreting dreams: http://colettebaronreid.com/newsletter/2010-09/intuition101.html ~~~~~ “The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don’t give them,” --she said, (taken from my final remarks in a Sync Weekly Magazine article about my art and mySelf :)

~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~

~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.

Sep 19 - 3AM
michele115 (not verified)
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I'm not the best of dream interpreters....

My dream... I was a child in a room downstairs asleep.. THE INNER CHILD OR THAT WHICH IS VUNERABLE i heard some heavy footsteps upstairs... WHO OR WHAT IT IS...THE UNKNOWN?...SUPRESSED FEAR? OR LIKE YOU SAID...APPRENSION OF THE UNKNOWN i woke up feeling not scared but apprehensive... then the footsteps started coming down the stairs to where i was. YOUR FEAR/APPREHENSION COMING CLOSER TO THE SURFACE...THE SUBCONSCIOUS COMING CLOSER TO THE CONSCIOUS I awoke (in reality) with a start and it felt as though someone was in my room, literally! DREAM WAKE STATES ARE FREAKY SOMETIMES...NOT NECESSARILY A PSYCHIC VIBE UNLESS YOU HAVE STRENGTH IN THIS AREA... I live on my own and yes this has bothered me, as the dream was so profound. I haven't had a dream like that since i was a kid. Thing is, her (my ex) friends have been a bit more friendly than usual. I haven't seen or heard from her for about 15 weeks now. Maybe this is part of the process - to have surreal dreams. Has anyone else experienced weird/profound - as though someone is trying to tell you something - dreams?