I had an EPIPHANY!!! (That, or it's bad gas....)
I had an EPIPHANY!!! (That, or it's bad gas....)
Hey I just posted an update about my narc saying he will never understand EVER why people are saying to him that I will never speak to him again. NOPE! He JUST doesn't get it?
Then i asked out loud, if they are really that psychologically damaged that they NEVER consider anything they may have done to POSSIBLY have consequences to somone else?
THEN - I just had an insight. AGAIN - EXPLANATION NOT justification. Tell me what you think:
In the case of my narc anyway, who was molested by a stepfather who hated him, and beaten as well - for YEARS starting from the age of four, that question i just asked answers itself:
They DON'T THNK about consequences EVER because all they ever knew from their childhood was that EVERY word they said, EVERY BREATHE they took, every step they walked, EVERYTHING THEY DID brought consequences TO THEM,. So they are used to it. does that make sense? IT"S NORMAL to the ABNORMAL
Mine ran yesterday and D&D'd
Hmmm, I think you are onto
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Nevergoback
Very insightful post
Hi Susan, thanks for the props
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Here's the thing...
Hi Michele12:)The first
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I presume it makes sense...
Let me clarify...
Well i agree with you that
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Well Lisa...
LOL
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SORRY i meant Michelle 115
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