I dont matter to anyone
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Nov 26 - 5AM
I dont matter to anyone
I think i was very deeply hurt by the narc such that i unknowingly harbour such a thought that i dont matter to anyone. I noticed that when i pass a remark when a close coworker was not agreeable to what i said. I gave up very quickly and said "it ok my opinion dont matter anyway". He was very taken aback and commented that he was abit hurt that i think he treated our friendship so callously.
So far no one around me is supportive of me going nc. My self esteem goes down a notch. Everyone thot i was childish to do nc. I begin to feel that i dont matter to anyone. An unhealthy thinking i know and something i need to get out from.
Just sharing my thots. Anyone else feels this way?
Sumiko
Sea,
When the Narc is at your work!!!!!!
Dear Tresor and Amazed I have
This sounds very typical of new recovery
Dear Goldie I counted more
Your mother and friends think you should still contact at man
Well Goldie, its culturally
O.k.
Thanks Goldie. I cant thank u
I love your posts!
Thanks! So heart warming to
Thanks for all your replies!
I have no self esteem, no
You're not alone in this
OMGosh Sumiko, don't think
You DO matter!
Hi Sea, I think what this
Hi Sumiko
UK Lady
Yes, Dee
Sea
I really identify. There is a
" I had hoped he would heal
Sea
Your coworker is a butt! He