I took the plunge gaining knowledge and being supported by the local battered women's shelter to tackle Step 3 No Contact. Well, limited contact due to kids. I am waiting to find geared to income housing right now to leave. They told me I am welcome also. I am in a different frame of mind with everything I have read, my N shows me constant condemnation, and has a deeming attitude. I will start to live again! I feel it already!