I am so so tired of being addicted. will these feelings ever end?
I am so so tired of being addicted. will these feelings ever end?
For me- it has been an 8 year battle...on and off the rollercoaster of passion and hell.
I had two big breaks in this 8 years of 15 months and 9 months. Every time I broke away, I knew I was trying to regain my soul back!
But I am an addict. and do addicts ever really lose their craving? someone tell me the truth.
he called 4 days ago after 4 months of NC- instigated by me as usual because of the pain of his behavior. He was contrite, curious and soft. It reeled me in but I did not bite.
but for 4 days now, I am in deep sexual craving. This man makes me quiver like no other man. The sex is like 2 people in love- deeply connecting...I wish it wasn't so. I wish I could say it was my projection....It is simply the most connected sex I have ever known.
there have been at least 50 times today that I have had to talk myself out of returning his call. and I am so God Damn tired of this addiction. Will I have to fight this my whole life??? It is going on a decade now and I am still as attracted to him as I ever was- maybe more so.
this last go around with him- from Feb. to May- the sex got even more profound. It was like touching a part of myself that was dying to be acknowledged for sooooooo long- and she was and I was in heaven.
I cannot imagine the agony of being addicted like this for a lifetime and having to constantly push down the urge....I live so close to him and that would be my version of HELL ON EARTH.
I am so tired of this craving. I sit here with a big drink in my hands , and will not call him because of you wonderful women here....but God Help me= bring me some relief.
I think what therapists don't
I think we are speaking of
Worse than addiction!
Addiction
yes, I have had all the symptoms of intense withdrawal
wow i thought it was only me
striving
I think getting us addicted is their whole mission
I do not think it is sexual craving
Fascinating stuff! I don't
Outstanding response Winter
well this a a relief to hear
Wow, Winter! That is
spinning
strivng for healing, you will recover
You know, I love a good
Still Crave the sex
strivingforhealing
the first time we had sex he
Thank you Nemesis. ....I will use these points as mantras today.
Every time you contact him or
I HAVE Not relapsed in 4 months and Winter- you are so right on!
Striving, honey
Striving
sunafterrain
striving...
These feelings WILL fade...
Journey on...
Journey
strivingforhealing...so am i
Aceonelady
interesting how they make us