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I am SO done with men!

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#1 Nov 30 - 6AM
Sea
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I am SO done with men!

The new man turns out to be a shit!

Just because i rejected him he turned his guns against me at work. We are not even working in the same firm.

Ex narc is still doing some triangulation stunts with some minions. Hello!! He thinks i am bloody stupid or what?? He havent heard that u cant even pull the same trick at the same dog!

I am so done with men! I rather be a spinster be alone! So what? I would be in peace and living in dignity.

Cheers to all the single ladies here!! We rock!!

Sumiko

Nov 30 - 8PM
blueworld
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Sum

I am buying myself a BOB for christmas might i suggest the same? im fuck men too i have alot more fun by myself spending time alone and doing what i want to when i want to im drama free lol =D
Nov 30 - 2PM
Hunter
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He who has the bigger Gun

He who has the bigger Gun wins.. If he works with you is sending flowers appropriate ?? Hmmm maybe he's trying to sway a case by buying you off.. Sumiko how big are your guns??? Let's think about this.. Ladies and gents.. Any ideas here.. Hunter
Nov 30 - 8PM (Reply to #8)
Sea
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Hi Hunter - Mon/Tue flowers

Hi Hunter - Mon/Tue flowers then after repeated rejections (infact very polite ones as we are still working in the same industry) and that turns to hate very quickly. In a matter of days? A very impatient narc? LOL Haha and my Guns? This new guy is older, more experience at work. For work guns, his is a little bigger. As for Emotional guns, I have a bigger one for sure because I've invested zero. Actually the Biggest gun against all Narcs, or any plain assclowns and jerk varieties is still NO CONTACT!!! They are the loser no matter what, they are helpless and cannot do anything if you just dont engage with them.
Nov 30 - 10AM
Im_always_fine
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I suppose that's the GOOD

I suppose that's the GOOD thing that has come out of all of this for me. My new found repulsion for men. I've always wanted a man...wanted the ideal...him and me against the world. I am FINISHED. I'm taking ALL of the energy/thought/love/creativity/hard work/heart I've put into my relationships...taking it ALL and putting it into ME and MY well being. I've been a giver all of my life. Not anymore. I'm going to build my company...rebuild my life and my home with my newly released energy. I deserve it. I've paid my dues..I've done my giving.. And you don't need to be alone...you can surround yourself with some really amazing interesting friends who make you laugh...who you can travel and shop with...who support your highest vision for yourself. My new motto is: LET GO OR BE DRAGGED.
Nov 30 - 8PM (Reply to #6)
Sea
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Love your new motto "LET GO

Love your new motto "LET GO OR BE DRAGGED"! Its such a waste of energy sometimes, thinking about oh if he cares/does not care, if he loves/dont love, if he wants us/dont want us etc etc. It something beyond us. We cannot make someone want, care, love us. Spend quality time, effort on ourselves, be it career, beauty, health, hobby etc etc... makes sense in healing time. Makes the healing time much more palatable as well! haha
Nov 30 - 9AM
Sparrow
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Sea, we attract these men

Sea, we attract these men because of who we are. Did you see my post the other day about men? I had 13 men in 18 months affect me in one way or another. NO THEY WERENT MEN I DATED!! LOL Most of the men in that list were friends that attempted to, who knows what.........two I was involved with, my ex husband and my narc #2.......they were coming out of the woodwork though. We need to accept that these people feel they can do this to us, and we need to STOP THEM IN THEIR TRACKS! This will be a constant in your life, unfortunately. But arm yourself in a way that you are able to dismiss them and not let them affect you. My latest encounter IS my last........ Single is a cool place to be actually. I don't refer to myself as "alone" I refer to myself as "on my own" :) You will be able to date eventually, it is way too soon for you yet. Take your time, heal......it's all good! :)
Nov 30 - 8PM (Reply to #4)
Sea
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Yes Sparrow I read your post

Yes Sparrow I read your post that you say stick a fork in you!! And the shirtless guy (OMG!) There are plenty approaching me in bars, clubs, pubs whatever. They will wait till your friends walkaway for a while and you are alone to try to FISH YOU! And the cheesy pickup lines make me cringe!!! I am not thinking about dating. I dont even care if i would be dating again in future. I dont want to worry about that. Its ok to be single really. As long as you are happy, contented, have enough to eat and a shelter and some great friends to hangout with and a family who loves you for what you are. I am fortunate, I am blessed. I am very thankful! Sometimes when we are so down, all it takes is to count our blessings. Then we will see how much we have!
Nov 30 - 8AM
needing2know
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yes we do rock!!! lol I would

yes we do rock!!! lol I would rather be alone and be happy then be with someone who makes me miserable! And on the plus side it's one less person to take care of lol
Nov 30 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
Sea
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N2K yes! We rock! We dont

N2K yes! We rock! We dont need narc babies in our lives and make us "take care" of them. Oh my their tantrums! EEEEEEKKK No thanks!