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I am so ANGRY for You Sickofit and all of us!!!

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#1 Mar 28 - 9PM
apple
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I am so ANGRY for You Sickofit and all of us!!!

I am fuming right now!!! Why do these crazy troublemaking good for nothing Narcs think its okay to try to intentionally hurt us and to try their darndest to do and say things to get a reaction out of us. It is sooooo frustrating and painfull.

Mine would pull that same crazy making game and even go on his twitter account talking about how much he loved his fake girlfriend to try and get a reaction out of me or to catch me looking him up. I was upset one time so badly I actually threw up.

Anyways, love love love you guys!!!

And sick of it... sending prayers your way!!

Mar 29 - 4PM
sara-smile
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apple

I'm so angry for SOI and all of us too. I will never understand how somebody could be so cruel and heartless. I don't know how in the world they lay their heads down at night and sleep! I've been upset so bad a few times that I've thrown up. Not only are they emotionally bad for us they make us physically sick too!
Mar 29 - 3PM
Hunter
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Apple

There is a lesson here! It's a game! It's how they operate. We need to alwaysbe on our toes! They really are the Devil! Idealk
Mar 29 - 9AM
broken23
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There is no shame!! How could

There is no shame!! How could you have protected yourself before, all us would have had we knew... Even now he involuntarily is sending you text trying to CONTROL your feelings. Dont let him win. What kind of a happy person texts stuff like that to their ex??? He is miserable and always will be. I hope his new disastrous relationship will finally give you the proof that nothing will change with him...EVER. My N did the same crap. Anytime he had any happy moment, he tried to rub it in my face and wanted me to be jealous. And then finally if i did get jealous. he told me im jealous and dont know how to be happy for him.
Mar 29 - 4PM (Reply to #7)
Susan32
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Happy moments

The ex-Psych professor couldn't stand seeing me happy. I'd be snapped at to take him seriously. When I was the giggly, infatuated schoolgirl... he thought I was laughing at him. The only time he really tried to rub it in my face was when he flaunted his girlfriend after my pastor friend died. And he was too lazy for PDAs and hand holding. He didn't even do it right *shakes head, rolls eyes* The ex-P WANTED me to be jealous about him&his live-in girlfriend, so imagine how his plans went epically crashing down when I wished the BOTH of them a happy life together. He raged at that one. I told him I was getting closure, that we weren't compatible. The only way I could make closure (and NEVER think of the ex-P as a potential boyfriend/spouse) is to make a happy future for him&the wife. He thinks I assumed they went off and got the fairytale ending, the Happily Ever After, the wedding that a Disney Princess would envy. That's how I closed the book for myself. But then again... I wasn't romantically/sexually involved with him. If I had had sex with him, dated him, then met the girlfriend with his flaunting... I would've been a raging hellion.
Mar 28 - 9PM
gettinbetter
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Thank you. I know what he is

Thank you. I know what he is all the answers but I say why me? but I know the answer. I am not blaming or shaming myself but I failed to protect myself from a predator. I knew he was a predator. So let this be a lesson to you all with each contact you are putting yourself in harms way.
Mar 29 - 6AM (Reply to #5)
sadderbutwiser
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sick of it

hey, i haven't read alot lately, but i thought you were leaving?? i'm so glad you're still here. you've helped me alot and i was sad when i read that you were going to go. anyway, i agree with michele in that none of us could have possibly known they were predators cause they're so good at what they do. i'm getting sick of all of us deflecting the blame off of those freaks when that is where it belongs. we were just human, they're not!!!!!
Mar 28 - 9PM (Reply to #4)
michele115 (not verified)
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Need clarification

Thank you. I know what he is all the answers but I say why me? but I know the answer. I am not blaming or shaming myself but I failed to protect myself from a predator. I knew he was a predator. Because I'm translating this: I am not blaming or shaming myself but I failed to take responsibility for not knowing the unknownd so I'll blame myself but it's not really blaming myself or shaming myself even though I FAILED... I need clarification obviously I'm reading this wrong...I did try to find your story to see WHY you think you knew ahead of time he was a predator...but I couldn't find it...
Mar 28 - 9PM (Reply to #3)
venuslovedpluto
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Lol

I'm going thru this phase where I respond to his hoovering by telling him what a shitbag he is, never reading a single one of his replies. I usually still get texts the next morning. And the next. I can't be in his harm's way because I'm no longer allowing it. I took the power back, emotionally. Nothing he does or says means anything to me anymore. I have to get back to me and my own standards for myself, my life- just as (a very wise) Michele115 said. I regret allowing him to steer me into hell too but I know why I did. And I'll never be that girl again. I have grown. Chin up, SickofIt. You're growing by miles. Two steps forward sometimes, two steps back. It's okay.
Mar 28 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
michele115 (not verified)
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How did you know he was a predator?

Did he come with a neon sign? No, you didn't know and when you got hooked you were hooked and ignored the flags...we all did.