I am feeling discouraged and my therapist
I am feeling discouraged and my therapist
I am feeling discouraged because I have tried a few therapists throughout my life. I have not found one to really stick. The one that I have now I did like but I dont think that she "gets it". She doesnt want to refer to my XN as a narcissist. She just wants to deal with how my feelings are affected by his actions, which I get but not to acknowledge his disorder bugs me. It makes me feel like the N because she makes me feel bad for calling him one. She said that she has clients that are N's and she deals with PTSD, but I am not sure if she is working out. She just keeps saying that I pick people like my XN because of my mother and that I was trained that way. She just refers everything back to my mother. I get that you need to get to the root of the issue, but I KNOW WHY I DO THE THINGS I DO! I JUST NEED HELP TO STOP DOING IT! Does anyone get what I am saying? I dont need help with the HOW I got this way because I have been going to different therapists for years. I know what my issue is I just need to learn how to break the habit. Do you guys think I should find a new therapist or stick it out with this one? It is just so expensive to go there for an hour to hear things that I already know. Plus I work full time and go to college full time. I dont really have time to go listen to something that I already know.
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