How to Make a Narcissist Pay

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#1 Aug 10 - 10AM
sara-smile
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How to Make a Narcissist Pay

I needed to hear this today! After 11 days of blissful silence I got 3 text messages from Narc Boy! I didn't answer him so he should be crazier by tomorrow! I can't wait! :(

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Mmm, it’s delicious to think about sometimes, isn’t it — making that mofo writhe in misery to pay for the pain and destruction he’s caused. It’s justice, with flair and attitude. And, how hard can it be? Spraypainting “assclown” on the side of his car, lobbing dozens of eggs at his house, or getting him drunk and, when he falls asleep, drawing daffodils on his forehead with permanent markers. Tying him down and tattooing “I hurt people” across his clavicle. Posting unflattering pictures of him in the post office with the FBI Most Wanted, or in public restrooms with “Pervert” written on them.

Aug 10 - 12PM
StudentOfLife
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Great post Sara!

This post had so many good affirmations. And "Aunt Alex" is delightfully humerous too. Thanx so much for the posting! :-)
Aug 10 - 11AM
Lisa87
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Ignore Ignore Ignore

always got to my Narc in the past, drove him crazy and now after the final D&D happened and I saw him and ignored him at our local restaurant..that was the end of all ends. Retaliation did not work, got upset one night and threw his recycling in his driveway because he lied and told me he was home and he wasn't. After that incident, he laughed and thought it was very funny, bringing it up several times that I did that. Didn't matter that I was upset or that he lied, he got attention. Not giving any attention is the way to go..NC NC NC...delete delete delete
Aug 10 - 12PM (Reply to #4)
Susan32
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Laughter was the ONLY attention he didn't want

Some Narcs are relatively easygoing&don't mind being the butt of jokes, as long as they're the center of attention. My former Narc boss had the ability to ridicule himself, as did the obese Narc coworker. The ex-Psych prof however, HATED it when he was the center of ridicule-THAT kind of attention. He had NO problems making fun of me. He thought my anger or pain was FUNNY. When I grieved my grandfather, he thought it was FUNNY. When I retaliated or was crying, he found it FUNNY. But when HE was the one being mocked&laughed at... he'd RUN AWAY. Literally. When the senior skit ridiculed his habit of running away... he got up, ran away (after guzzling down a whole bottle of beer) Ignoring him was a form of narcissistic injury. But so was making fun of him. It destroyed his illusions of power&control--and besides, I had FUN doing it. *I* got something out of it, tho it left his ego battered&bruised.
Aug 10 - 11AM
Layla
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In my humble opinion..............

I think that the worst torture one could devise for these freaks would be to lock them in a room all alone for about three days. After about an hour, they would probably have their socks on their hands like puppets, just to have someone to lie to.
Aug 10 - 10AM
Susan32
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Humor is the BEST revenge!

Laughing at the ex-Psych prof and making him the butt of jokes literally made him RUN AWAY. Turning him into a joke worked-in person and I think virtually. I'm sure when I broke NC and mockingly compared him to a shrieking newborn went over well like pork chops at Passover. Narcs want you (a)adoring them or (b)being scared of them. Laughing at them is NEITHER. NORMAL enamored people don't compare their beloveds to screaming, bedwetting infants. Even stupid Narcs know that!