How to keep from looking at his Facebook...let's have a challenge! :=)

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Dec 23 - 1PM
ImStrong
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Last Rule OW FB must be

Last Rule OW FB must be blocked to..she is also apart of the NFBC We must go cold turkey to re discover our lives back..I am now NC for more than 32 days..we can go NFBC for 32 days..we must beat the addiction "In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess you"

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Dec 23 - 1PM (Reply to #15)
Deidre99
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Oohhh...you are good. lol He

Oohhh...you are good. lol He isn't dating anyone now. But, he added some new women so there has been temptation to look at their profiles. But, the ones he added, they have it set to private, so couldn't look much. But, how funny!!! That we have this in common too. I thought I was the only one who peeked at the pages of his female ''friends.'' :P lol Imstrong, good luck to you with this venture. I'm hoping we stay the course the entire time. They say...a habit ir formed or broken at the 21 day mark. So by 32 days, we should be really over it!
Dec 23 - 1PM
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Ok

Ok Deidre99 I also made another thread for good and bad days..but they cand bump that and we can use your..My official date starts right now 12/23/10 we can come here and meet and great and get support.. Rules of the thread consists of All N parties must be blocked and put away out of view..reminder this is real NC in full You must be NC with the N along with NFBC We can do it ..where strong "In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Dec 23 - 1PM
Deidre99
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Starting today for me 12/23

Today will be my official start date. Just list your official start date here. Let's use this thread for celebrating when we don't look, and asking for help when we're tempted to look. AND IF YOU LOOK? No worries. Please. Come here and share, and we'll all get you back on track. I am guilty of this stupid energy-wasting habit. He doesn't deserve anymore of my attention. I wish him well. I said goodbye, and now I have to say goodbye in other ways, and here's a way to start. Here's to being narc-free in 2011!!
Dec 23 - 1PM
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Face book is the the best

Face book is the the best thing and the worst thing all rolled into one . I deleated mine from my friends but i still see photos of him as they are posted to joint friends , i wish i could show you one that was taken at a party last month (yet another party i couldnt go to because he was there :( but he has lost loads of friends so heres hoping he will wither up and die lol) well this photo is pure psycopath , he has wild eyes and that smurk we talk about on his face , it made me laugh . Have you deleted him from face book ? can you still see his profile if you delate them ?xx Oh talking of face book i will up date my experiment i have news on the "random friends " xxlol
Dec 23 - 1PM (Reply to #11)
Deidre99
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Scoop

Hi scoop...yes, I can still see his profile page/pics he uploads/and any updates to his profile. I can still see his friends list. I think all blocking does, is if you have your controls set on private, then he/she can't get in anymore to your page. He has his set on open to everyone. Not the entire page, but his main 'wall,' etc. So...it can be very tempting. Regarding FB. A thought as to these random friends showing up. It could be that you visited something on FB, and it tracked it...and now you have random friends appearing. I have a whole bunch of random people showing up, and the reason is, I went into a group page, that was part of my old high school, and now everyone and their mother, is showing up who ever graduated from that high school. I recognize some names, but others, no. So, that could be an idea as to your random friend question. I remember your thread on that. Also, FB has strict rules that you can't be tracked if you just visit someone's wall. It doesn't have a feature to do that. There are apps that you can purchase but they typically only track those who are posting on your wall. Not just visiting. I've asked many people about this, and it's even on FB's 'help' section. So, hopefully they won't be able to see that we have peeked! But...I just want to get over the habit, once and for all. It's a waste of energy, ladies!!!
Dec 23 - 12PM
ImStrong
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Here can be the official

Here can be the official sign up sheet for who will participate for the 32 day Challenge..Ill also make a official challenge page for those who are facebook snooper addicts.. Thanks Deidre99 "In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Dec 23 - 12PM
ImStrong
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When do we Officially start Today or Tommorrow

Lets do this im willing to start the same time with you ladies even if you started already we should start together . Today or Tomorrow Deidre99? LETS GO! "In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Dec 23 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
Deidre99
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We could start tomorrow,

We could start tomorrow, then that would give me one more day to look at his FB. hahaha! I'm kidding. ;) TODAY--let's begin today. :) Thanks for this wonderful idea, Imstrong. I'm hoping that eventually, not looking will be automatic, and natural. *hugs*
Dec 23 - 11AM
truetotruth
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FB

I resisted all FB peeking for 14 weeks. Fell into the obsessive rut for a week. I am back on the wagon. Looking at his FB only hurts me. If I go looking for hurt what do I think I will find?? Yep thats right Hurt. He doesnt get to be a source fo my pain anymore. Anyone who needs a N/C ride in my wagon is welcome to hop on....however you may be asked to supply potato chips or something yummy. I am planning on a very long ride :)
Dec 23 - 1PM (Reply to #6)
Deidre99
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Join us on our crusade! :=)

Join us on our crusade! :=)
Dec 23 - 11AM
Happy1
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I have resisted all

I have resisted all temptation of looking at his fb ever again because it will just cause more pain and hurt. I blocked him and he can't see mine and I can't see his. You could try that. Good luck!
Dec 23 - 11AM (Reply to #2)
Deidre99
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I did block him, but...I can

I did block him, but...I can still see his main profile/wall. He has it set on public, for his friend list, and some main postings. I can still see all that. But, today, starts the ''fast!'' Thanks for your post, happy.
Dec 26 - 8PM (Reply to #3)
Deidre99
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How's everyone doing with the challenge?

I peeked one time since this has started I admit. But, this weekend, FB free. Email free. It was wonderful. I feel stronger. I didn't feel so good Friday night, but the weekend...spending it with family and friends...people who love and care about me. It was what I needed. Hope everyone is feeing strong here... please check in when ya can.
Dec 26 - 9PM (Reply to #4)
ImStrong
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I also peeked ..but 2021 I

I also peeked ..but 2021 I won't be his slave from far anymore xx

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess