How do you resist checking Facebook for his status?
How do you resist checking Facebook for his status?
This is probably a stupid question but I'll ask it anyway.
I, for all intents and purposes, have been NC w/ my N for 3 months now. I cycle through being fragile and vulnerable, hurt, and angry on any given day. I don't have any temptation to call him or to ask mutual friends/acquaintances about him. I have a greater than slight temptation to drive by the places he frequents (have even seen his car there), but have not stopped. Where I fall down is with Facebook. I don't usually check Facebook, but since I am in the process of starting a new business, I will need to be on FB often.
Last week, I trolled around FB and learned that my N (who's in his mid-60s) is hitting on a 27-year old woman in Japan who is too stupid to realize what he's doing (sorry--I am bitter about her too. I see her photos--she's not hot, has pics of her at a "club," which is probably where he found her b/c that's where all of his fantasies begin, and fits the profile of who he's targeting--Asian, late 20's - 40 years old, working in the "beauty" industry--not). That ruined my day for 4 days. My N is not one of my FB friends. He's too stupid and lazy to put privacy settings on his account so everything is there for the world to see (gotta love it--he even told that 27-year old bimbo to call him and posted his work cell phone for the world to see. Good going, sherlock. I hope your employer fires your a**, even if you've been there for a long time). What to do about this temptation/how do I keep from checking up on his status on FB? Thank you in advance for any suggestions.
Deactivate the old FB, and open a New FB
How do you resist checking Facebook for his status?
Snooping is contact
BLOCK. BLOCK. BLOCK. And, oh
good option too
+1
And RESIST the urge to
Best advice I can
I've never been on FB, never
Easy to resist--because the
I had this a lot in the
Block him
fb
Thanks for your perspective
Holy cow, that is so sad.
my psycho dad lives in vietnam