How do they Photograph?

I looked at the latest pics my ex N is posting on mypace, fling, xmatch and all his sex sites and he looks mentally deranged. It is so bizarre that i almost dont recognize him. Is this just because my perception of him is different now that i know the truth? I totally know what you mean by this. I think we just took off the rose colored glasses now and see that this was really him all along. very weird.

i've been looking at old photos of the psycho now that he's dead....and from about 2000 on....he looks completely full tilt EVIL...even when he's faking a smile...his eyes are scary.....but i dug out some old photos the other day....from before we were married....and really looked them over....and he looked PERFECTLY NORMAL...he's LAUGHING in some of them...his eyes look like a normal person..... but then...in our wedding photos he looks like a grinning GHOUL...he looks like a completely different person than in photos taken just months before.....lots of people have said he looks better in his death bed photos than he did for years....more sane...... seeing them is no comfort...it scares me even more....that he looked so normal.....how in hell could he have FAKED that?...looking so normal in a candid photo????...it makes me afraid of every man in the world... “I do not bring forgiveness with me, nor forgetfulness. The only ones who can forgive are dead; the living have no right to forget." - Chaim Herzog

My N was gorgeous and looked stunning in photos. Beautiful man with a knock out smile. Looked just as great in real life. That said, it certainly hid the very very dark and angry demons inside. I tended to see more of the disgust, anger and bitterness he had for the world. It made me sad, wishing the smiles were more real, sincere and more frequent.

My N didn't mind taking pics, but the most attractive ones were of us together. Prior to that, he looked really different - kind of sinister. When I met him I'd only seen him w/the military buzz cut hair (low & neat), but earlier pics showed dark, thick, varying lengthed hair with a VERY pronounced widow's peak. He smiled BIG despite having severe malocclusion (crowding). The N's Two canine teeth are VERY cat-like & he refers to them as his 'fangs'. Hmmmm...widow's peak + fangs = Eddie Munster! Ugh...freak. He also liked sending me (via text) a gradual series of penis pics - from 'soft' to 'hard'. The glare from the mirror we was standing in front of could be seen in each shot. Sad. LMAO!!!

He wasn't good looking to begin with. Prematurely bald and gray, overweight, not-so-great teeth, double chin (very prominent when he was at his heaviest), pig-like nose with big, flaring nostrils. But photos really brought out his dark, vacant eyes (which are actually hazel but, photographed, they look black and empty). For all of his ego and arrogance and need to be so important and with important people, there are hardly any photos of him on the internet, not even his name is out there in anything high-profile or important (and he is into politics and claims that everyone who is anyone knows him). I have deleted the few photos I had of him on my computer and the printout he gave me a couple of years ago. I wiped everything of him out of my life, as much as I could and still have business ties with him.

He loved to have his picture taken. He would take pictures of himself on his cell and send it to me. All pictures sent to me w/ no smiles all serious. But.... I researched the web last year when I was suspicious and found pics of him w/ other women smiling, arms around them, half-dressed women at bars all from photobucket. I found a different person I never knew. Dating websites, facebook w/ A LOT of women in bikinis. All lies and deceit. That started my research of cheating, pathological lying/narcs.

Always looks like a deer in the headlights

for such a raging Narc...he didn't like to have his picture made....and he looks like a crazed demon in all of them....maybe that's why he didn't like to have his picture made.....or maybe it was part of his super spy bullshit...... everything was high espionage.. and he didn't know how to smile..it was like smiling was chore...so anytime he's smiling in a photo...it looks totally fake.....makes him look even more like a reptile........ “I do not bring forgiveness with me, nor forgetfulness. The only ones who can forgive are dead; the living have no right to forget." - Chaim Herzog

Looked at the camera! Every single one of his pictures, he's looking off to the side or at anybody other than the one taking the picture. If he ever did look forward, it was only if he had his sunglasses on....I thought that was weird.