How do I make it go away?
How do I make it go away?
Every couple of days i'm up and ready to move on with my life and the next couple of days I feel down without wanting to see the light of day.
The memories of Dr.Jekyll cross my mind and I begin to question myself, what if he really isn't a N? After all regardless of the weekly fighting and break ups, the last 4yrs he was always one call away ready to do whatever I asked. He was practically obsessed with me.
Then once again I remind myself about Mr. Hyde. Yes he was available and had some good times, but deep inside I always felt that tension while we spent time together. Always wondering what it was we were going to fight about next. It's like I was always waiting for it.
I have no doubt something was abnormal about my exBF. Since he hasn't actually been diagnosed with NPD, I continue to put the blame on myself. The last year he and I were together I would suddenly be very attached to him and suddenly I would keep my distance. I couldnt stand the power he had to bring me down. When I would back off, he took this as me treating him badly or not loving him enough. He said I didn't give him "my all" but I noticed everytime I did begin to "give him my all" once again, the nice guy would disappear and I would get hurt badly once again. I just couldn't take it.
I feel it's my fault he left me for someone else. Maybe if I gave him my all he would still be here?
How do I make it go away?
-Iznjho
It will go away........
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! YOUR FAULT FOR WHAT?????
Iznjho
It's not you! It's all him!
Ohhhh, the eFFING MIND GAMES they play!