Hitting the 6 months mark of NC

It has been today 6 months I have left my exN girlfriend. For weeks, she professed her undeniable "love" just to let me know shortly after she had met someone and was living a fairytale, plastering photos of them everywhere just to make sure I could see how happy they were.

Well 6 months down the road of NC... I got a "hoover" message to which I didn't respond. I also found this community which helped me understand every intricacy of her deranged brain.

I also learned I had to first and foremost think about me and invest in myself and in the people who TRULY deserved it.

In the past 6 months, I found my new passion in Brazilian martial arts, got promoted to director at my job, developed and further solidified amazing relationships. Met amazing people, got a boost in self confidence. I did not want her to affect a ioda of my personality. I wanted her eff'ed up mind to be a catalyst for me to become a better version of myself.

All this I owe it to you all, to Goldie, to our shared experiences.

I still think about her, this is undeniable. But what used to be negative energies are now a motivation for me to become a better person.

If it wasn't for you all, I am not sure I would have known how to deal with this mental cataclyst.

Thanks!