Has anyone experienced this? I have finally mustered the strength to tell him I want a divorce AGAIN -- this time no hesitation. Every time he said he was sorry, i said it wasn't about him, it was about me and what I wanted and that was to not be married to him. He said all he wanted was for me to give him one more chance to show me how different everything could be and I said that I wanted things to be different by signing the divorce papers. He said I was too much of a coward to tell him to his face. I agreed. He finally understood (or seemed to) that it was over -- I am done.
NOw, for the first time in 3 months, (his friend just found out we were separated three weeks ago) - his friend is reaching out and trying to talk to me on his behalf. It is hard because I actually really like his friend and think he's a good person (but hey, my judge of character is obviously off or I wouldn't be here in the first place) - and it is killing me to hear his friend beg for him on his behalf and tell me how much he loves me and that he is a good person deep down etc....this is the same friend who didn't even know anything was going on until three weeks ago --
has anyone experience this type of use of friends?