hey guys why is no one responding to my cry for help 4 hours ago???

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#1 Aug 30 - 12PM

sadderbutwiser

hey guys why is no one responding to my cry for help 4 hours ago???

i'm really down today but i don't get why some members who have been on are responding to others but not to my post from this morning. this is making me feel worse than i already do because i thought this was the one place where i bould get some support. goldie and used you were on when i posted this yet i see you have answered others who have posted way after me. just confused i guess. used i especially thought i would hear from you cause i know yours lives near you too. just hurting today.

#2 Aug 31 - 8AM

sadderbutwiser

wow!

geez i can't believe how pathetic and desperate i sounded yesterday. i am better today. it's amazing how even after 15 months NC i can still get so triggered and sad. i know that no one would ever intentionally not respond to someone. i just needed some reassurance that what i was feeling is normal. i did indeed get some great responses when i checked in this morning. thank you all!! i WILL pm next time i am feeling badly. i didn't think of that. hopefully those times will get fewer and fewer. but sometimes i think that those feelings won't ever go away totally cause i see him so much. you guys have helped so much and i am SO grateful!!

#3 Aug 30 - 6PM

Susan32

Are you alright?

I was at work when this was posted. Are you doing alright?

#4 Aug 30 - 3PM

Sparrow

I am so sorry that you didn't

I am so sorry that you didn't get a response from anyone, that is unusual. So glad you reposted so we all are aware. I will gladly check out your recent post. Hang in there. We all do care, genuinely..............

#5 Aug 30 - 2PM

Hunter

Sadder

Goldie is correct! PM if you are feeling bad! I personally have become very busy at my day job! I think there is something in the air! I too have Been responding to may PM's I'm sorry you are down. My narc used to live across the street from me many years ago before I knew what he was! It's not easy, you just have to remind yourself of what he is! You need to retrain your brain! Time is on your side! Hunter

#6 Aug 30 - 12PM

Goldie

I just responded to your post sadderbutwiser

I answered a couple of posts and was mostly on my PM's answering members in crisis. I honestly did not see your post, sorry. I can see where you would feel badly. Our bad. Not to excuse this just want the members to know that you are always welcome to PM the moderators if you are in need of a quick response. You did the right thing by bringing it to our attention because when I came back on to the forum I saw your new comment right away. Also sometimes I am on the board and also on the phone and my computer is still on. God bless, Goldie

#7 Aug 30 - 12PM

LuckySpurs

So sorry, which post??

I put in a cry for help yesterday and still no one has come forward with any advice for me either. & YES, it hurts and makes me think I've not welcome. YOU ARE WELCOME HERE! STAY STRONG :)

#8 Aug 30 - 6PM (Reply to #7)

ordinarycourage

Lucky Spurs

I sometimes take a couple of days off this website. I am sorry no one responded to your posting. We are all in this together, that's for sure.

#9 Aug 30 - 6PM (Reply to #8)

LuckySpurs

Thank you

I understand. Thank you.

#10 Aug 30 - 1PM (Reply to #5)

Goldie

Certainly not the case

Everyone is welcome and when a post is not responded to it is not intentional. I will remind the moderators to be mindful of checking out the posts to make sure they have all been responded to. I just responded to your post. Honestly I was online but not so much on the forum and was on PM's for awhile. I was on the phone and just got off and noticed this thread. God bless, Goldie

#11 Aug 30 - 6PM (Reply to #6)

LuckySpurs

Thank you

I wasn't going to say anything but when sadderbutwiser spoke up I had to say something. I understand it wasn't intentional. Thank you for responding to my post.

#12 Aug 30 - 12PM (Reply to #3)

sadderbutwiser

thank you LuckySpurs

thanks for responding. are you new here? i'm not familiar with your name. i can't find your post from yesterday. was it a new topic?? i have to go now but i will try to check in later. thanks again

#13 Aug 30 - 1PM (Reply to #4)

LuckySpurs

I am new here

Yes, sadderbutwiser, I am new here. I found this site last week. Shared an email with Lisa about NARCSPEAK and then signed up on the site. This is the link to what I wrote yesterday. http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2011/08/29/help-my-husband-trying-bring-my-abusive-narcissistic-stepfather-back-my-life Have a blessed day!

#14 Aug 30 - 12PM

Used

sadderandwiser

what post,what did it say?

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