He's such a bad person, why can't people see this?

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#1 May 14 - 4PM
Deidre40
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He's such a bad person, why can't people see this?

That's all I gotta say. And I regret sleeping with him. :=( Ugh!! But, can't do anything about it now.

I'm NC NC NC...not waivering. Not one bit. I'm meeting up with a guy I've been seeing, soon. He has been a long time friend. He has listened to this narc story for some time...and the narc now? Is stooping to new levels of patheticness. Lurked a moment ago on that site. Now...he is bashing me on that site. Not saying my name, I know he is referring to me. My guy friend said...''he's just trying to bait you into coming online, and talking to him or texting him.''

He's right. I'm not breaking NC. I need to stop lurking. I know this. Please be patient with me, all. But, why is he doing this? Do you agree with my friend? I have not said one bad thing about the guy on there. Maybe in private. lol And to you all. But not out in the open, on there. Why is he doing this? Why are people entertaining his stupidity?

I guess people are strangely attracted to jerks, in this life. That's my only answer.

May 14 - 5PM
Gravity
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For some reason Narcs always

For some reason Narcs always seem to have a group of friends surrounding them. If it took you this long to realize he was disordered and you were close enough to sleep with him, imagine how long it will take them! You also have to take into consideration that you are a VERY intelligent person and were able to educate yourself on this. Not everyone is that intelligent and many would not even CARE enough to do the research. Says wonders about the person you are, girl :) Stay strong!
May 14 - 5PM
Hunter
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D40

You figured it out so will they. Hunter
May 14 - 5PM (Reply to #2)
whoknew
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i know its hard to be patient

I know exactly what you mean. I want to tell everyone that knows him what he is BUT I know that he will lie, deny, and charm everyone and I will end up looking like the "crazy, jealous ex". What keeps me going is KNOWING that eventually he will show his true colors, the same way he did to me. Try to keep that in mind and I hope it helps!