Ah... but he didn't. ;-) Right?
Did he really get you? He called you something you're not. He is an IDIOT. It's like he said, "you know what shortway...U R seven feet tall and a panda bear!!!!"
What.Ever.
If you want to get into a preschool fight with him, that's your choice, but he doesn't care. You can't make him care. that's the point. WALK AWAY.
If you are going to bust if you dont' reply then dont' go off on a tirade. The only reply worth making, is LOL!
And that.is.it. Block block block!!!!
But if you feel like, ha, I got him, then he will do something even MORE stupid to get you back. Like post some shit on someone else's wall.
Just let it go now, and you won't have to waste your time on it later. You're not going to get the last word in, and nobody likes that, but be bigger than him. He really CANNOT stop getting "the last word in" except his words are so dumb it's not worth reading anyway.
So don't roll around in the gutter with him. Find something PLEASANT to do. He didnt' get you if you laugh it off and walk away to do something that actually matters.
I know..it's hard..but even if the words are stupid....He still gets me..I start to shake because of the past when he used these words to get me hen I was weak and down..Honestly I should just go to the police..He has told me that he hopes I crash my car into a tree full speed,that he will put a bullet in my and my friends head if we look at his new girl wrong..he has said that he hopes I die a slow death...He is sick..
Then don't engage with him for one more second. Don't go sticking your hand in a tiger's cage and not expect to get bitten, or lose your arm. Please.
Why argue with a "person" that said those things? Don't.
Be the real boss! ;) The boss of you and take your life back and block him. Letting him get to you and argue with him is still him controlling you. Walk away. This feeling will pass.
But that smirk will start to fade and disappear when you don't act like you normally would and when he doesn't get any overt satisfaction via your losing your cool and telling him off. Trust me on this! Your NC will be a real weenie shrinker. :)
IT'S SOOOOOOO
Ah... but he didn't. ;-)
BETTER OFF!!!
I know..it's hard..but even
Then don't engage with him
Just blocked HIM:)
Good for you! It will give
WOOHOOOOO!!!!!!
Well he may be smirking now
Heck yeah! The smirk will
I normally advocate ZERO