HELP!!!! The Narc just text me :(

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#1 Oct 5 - 3PM

Crazy Train

HELP!!!! The Narc just text me :(

OMG, I feel like throwing up.....after 5 weeks NC, the Narc just sent me a text saying he is thinking about me. My belly hurts. I so badly want to answer, but know I shouldn't. I can't. It would be a backward slide to HELL. Hunter & friends......I need an emotional boost!

#2 Oct 5 - 10PM

Journey

You've given yourself an

You've given yourself an emotional boost by deleting!! That's the way it's done, woo woo! (hugs)

Journey on...

#3 Oct 5 - 6PM

Pride and Shame

Internal Battle

It's an internal battle, isn't it? You know what's right. You know what will happen. Your head has everything it needs to make the decision. Your heart or psyche or something emotional in you cannot be trusted right now. You need to turn it off, that emotional pleading voice that wants a hit of this addiction. Calm yourself down and trust NC. It's all about YOU right now. We're here for you!!

#4 Oct 5 - 6PM (Reply to #22)

Crazy Train

Thank you Pride. I actually

Thank you Pride. I actually smiled when I hit "delete". I wanted to answer so badly. Like you said, just a little hit of the addiction and I'd be back onboard the Crazy Train. There isn't enough Dramamine for me to go through that rough ride again!

#5 Oct 5 - 6PM

Susan32

Block, delete, NC

Change your number if necessary. He's not worth the chaos. He can't reach you if he doesn't know your number.

#6 Oct 5 - 4PM

needing2know

just keep thinking about all

just keep thinking about all the BS he did to you, you don't want it no reruns for you!

#7 Oct 5 - 4PM

Winter

Crazy Train

You found this forum because the relationship is toxic. He is toxic and devastating for you. You have to get rid of him forever! For you, for your peace and sanity. Please, keep strong, I know you are. Please, do not answer. And... as always advised by Hunter "DELETE DELETE DELETE" Big Hugs, Winter

#8 Oct 5 - 4PM (Reply to #17)

Crazy Train

Thank you, Winter. I knew I

Thank you, Winter. I knew I could get a boost from all of you! I am NOT answering the text. I have to forget that he is even alive. Thank you all for caring enough to answer my cry for help. xoxo

#9 Oct 5 - 4PM (Reply to #18)

Winter

Way to go girl!

We are all so proud of you!

#10 Oct 5 - 4PM

How could I

As Hunter would say....

As Hunter would say... DELETE, DELETE, DELETE!!!! Good luck!!

#11 Oct 5 - 4PM (Reply to #15)

Crazy Train

THANK YOU to my support team!

THANK YOU to my support team! You guys are THE BEST. No one else but this group knows the sickening feeling I have right now. xoxo

#12 Oct 5 - 4PM (Reply to #14)

Hunter

You beet me to it !! Yep,

You beet me to it !! Yep, Delete!! Get off the rails of this CRAZY TRAIN!! Silence is your sentence! Hunter

#13 Oct 5 - 3PM

Used

DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT TEXTING

DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT TEXTING BACK....YOU WILL NEVER GET OFF THE CRAZY TRAIN THEN......

#14 Oct 5 - 3PM (Reply to #2)

Crazy Train

Used, I know! I just sat

Used, I know! I just sat here at my desk looking at the phone in a trance. And now I'm crying. WTF? I thought I was off the crazy train. And just a friggin text reduces me to tears???

#15 Oct 5 - 5PM (Reply to #11)

Done sourcing

You are off the Crazy Train,

You are off the Crazy Train, but it is coming back on through and the whistle is blowing. Walk away before the rushing air sucks you back on. ds

#16 Oct 5 - 5PM (Reply to #12)

Crazy Train

Lol, DS. You are absolutely

Lol, DS. You are absolutely correct! This is the first attempt since NC. Hunter would be proud. I hit DELETE and kept my power. If anyone is going to receive sourcing from me, it's going to be ME! Lol

#17 Oct 5 - 4PM (Reply to #10)

Hunter

You're not even close to

You're not even close to getting off this ride!! Narcville sucks your lease expires in about 18 months!! Hang on sister we got your back!!! Hunter

#18 Oct 5 - 3PM (Reply to #3)

Used

ok, so it has reduced you to

ok, so it has reduced you to tears BUT IT HASENT REDUCED YOU TO TEXTING BACK....you came here .....good girlxxxx

#19 Oct 5 - 4PM (Reply to #4)

Crazy Train

Thank you, Used. This was the

Thank you, Used. This was the only place I know someone would REALLY understand how I feel! xoxo

#20 Oct 5 - 4PM (Reply to #5)

Used

we do understand, i even know

we do understand, i even know what you are feeling at the moment.....elated, pleased, scared, stressed, but as well, he has texted me...he does care about me.......no no no no no......please dont believe a word of it....xxxx

#21 Oct 5 - 4PM (Reply to #6)

Crazy Train

Used, are you inside my

Used, are you inside my head?? Lol. Yes, I have to admit that a part of me is smirking that he reached out. The other part of me says "WTF are you thinking? He's trying to suck you back in".

#22 Oct 6 - 10AM (Reply to #8)

spinning

CT, way to go on

hitting the delete button. Your reaction was normal, normal, normal. The physical reaction is the body's fight or flight syndrome...it's a warning sign of DANGER DANGER DANGER! You are doing so well with your NC! Please be prepared for another "hit." He will try again and you will be tested again. Be strong, come here and we'll boost your strength. Outstanding, CT, you are off the crazy train and on the track to a beautiful, fun, joyful and peaceful narc-free life! NO CONTACT AND DELETE DELETE DELETE. Rock on! Most sincerely, (not) spinning. I'M OFF THE F'N MERRY GO ROUND FOR GOOD!

spinning

#23 Oct 6 - 7PM (Reply to #9)

Crazy Train

Thank you, (not) spinning. I

Thank you, (not) spinning. I appreciate your supportive words! I'm hanging in there. Now if I could NC him out of my friggin dreams, I'd be WAY ahead in this process! Lol I always look forward to what you write after your name on the posts. Your phrases make me smile. I think the one above is my favorite so far :) Hugs!

#24 Oct 5 - 4PM (Reply to #7)

rosedewittbukater

Don't engage!

Don't give him your power by responding! It's hard I know but you can do it!

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