Thank you for sharing craigslist info!
But I'm confused,..why would women be looking under an ad for "women seeking men?" and how did you know a woman would bite?
If I wrote that ad, I'd assume only men would be reading my ad. What are the odds a woman would?
Am I reading something wrong?
I am glad you found out but so sorry. I myself do not want to know about the cheating as just dealing with the pain of abandonment and silent treatment almost pushed me over the edge.
I sense you are very strong Mel - I think you are going to come out of this awful experience quicker than many here. I guess the thing to remember is that these patterns run deep and are a part of their character - this stuff was going on long before we met them and will continue - they can't be real partners -
Thank you! I am strong and I WILL come out of this--I am just freakin' sick to my stomach that we were doing all sorts of Christmas stuff and he got me a kick-ass present and all sorts of things and yet, he was getting laid during this time!!! Now I know this is their M.O. but I am still shocked!!!
The bastard deserves an Emmy Award!
Good God, I am SO MAD!!!
while i was sending him a nice christmas care package after his move he was already with hooker looking new GF unbekown to me. Can't you see him just opening my gifts knowing that he totally screwed me over without me knowing a thing? he kept the gifts, never said thank you and posted pics of her and him together on FB new years eve - that is how I found out a 10 year relationship was over...what a jerk.
I am having hard time getting from the hurt to the anger. I think your anger will help you heal faster...
Man, now your N is pissing me off TOO!!!
I am SO sorry he is a total ass-I know that is not too helpful right now, but what a complete chicken-shit!!!
Hugs to you and I will pray for you to get to the anger part!
I am too beat down from 10 years of it to feel anger - i feel under water, really trashed. i was once spunky - hold on to your spunk! I think you are going to be fine. i think i have a longer way to go from so many years of believing crap!!! You are getting out quick - good for you! Stay mad!
I needed to hear that! Sometimes I wonder if people can understand my anger, so glad to hear you say it's healthy!
I am so sorry-I did feel underwater at first, but the more crap I find out, the more I know I will never take him back-EVER!
I am only getting out quick NOW because I am just finding out about all of this. It would have been quicker and BEFORE marriage, had I know this crap was goin' down and that he is an N!
I have faith in you and I know if you had spunk once, you WILL have it again! This is a VERY DIFFICULT thing to deal with and all of the mind-F-ing that goes along with it, but YOU are still in there-that asshole has just buried it! I know you will UNbury it as time goes on!
Good Lord!! They are all so typical!! You don't give me this and you don't give me that and in the meantime they are getting everywhere else!
Sorry you found at this way. I had NO IDEA there was such a site where you could find out that info!
I hate F-ing Narcs!
Yep, pissing and moaning like crazy and yet, gettin' elsewhere! Not to mention, being Mr. Christmas during that time frame!! Makes me sick!
It is just a classified ad site (not specific to cheating, BUT A LOT of trolling going on there)!
I Hate them too!!
WOW is RIGHT!!! Mell, I'm so
Veronrose
confused...
what kind of site produced this???
ifinallygotit
yeah it hurts
ifinallygotit
Your anger is healthy Mel
Thanks
Mell
Sara