Help me accept who he really is

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#1 Aug 1 - 11AM
Bobbie
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Help me accept who he really is

I sent him a nice request to surrender a $3000. item that he has that was awarded to me in our divorce. Late last night he sent the first contact that he has made with me for a few months. He said he doesnt have anything of mine. I immediately became violently ill just like I did when he left me almost 3 years ago. He knows the number one trait I dislike in a person is lying. Why is he doing this? I stepped aside and let him out of our marriage, not fighting him on it, splitting everything 50/50 even though his income is over 5 times what mine is and I am now struggling. He said he would always take care of me and always care about me. I wanted to stay friends and didn't want our kids to hate him or me. I always wanted the kids/grandkids to keep a relationship with him but now I feel like they will be punching me in the gut if they have anything to do with him since he is lying to me and treating me like I am his worst enemy. I have done nothing negative to him. If anything I obviously gave him way too much so that he would be happy. After all, even though my world shattered, I told him that everyone deserves to be happy and I would not fight him on a divorce. I am heartbroken, mad, confused. How does he really feel inside about lying to me? How can he look in the mirror at himself? I want to scream and tell all of his high class friends and coworkers how cruel he is and wish they all would shun him. I think I'm at the beginning again..............

Aug 1 - 6PM
Emjbear
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He looks in the mirror and

Aug 1 - 5PM
jennifer
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Sucks

Aug 1 - 4PM
rosedewittbukater
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Bobbie I get it

Aug 1 - 3PM
Goldie
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Liars lie, cheaters cheat, and PD's are PD's

Aug 1 - 12PM
brinamarie
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Expecting

Aug 1 - 12PM
Hunter
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You need to ask yourself the

Aug 1 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
Bobbie
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Wow

Aug 1 - 12PM (Reply to #9)
Hunter
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Funny because if you keep

Aug 1 - 12PM
Done sourcing
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No way are you at the

Aug 1 - 12PM (Reply to #5)
Bobbie
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Yes

Aug 1 - 1PM (Reply to #6)
mckenzie
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I know how you feel..

Aug 1 - 11AM
wideawake
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I'm so sorry

Aug 1 - 11AM
Layla
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How does he feel about lying to you?

Aug 1 - 11AM
Pearl430
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ok