Help! 5 months of NC and a big drink tonight is giving me amnesia!
Help! 5 months of NC and a big drink tonight is giving me amnesia!
I did something stupid today- I asked a friend who knows his friend - if she had seen him or heard about him- snooping! I have not done this in many many weeks.
She filled me in on the latest. She even told me what my Narc said about our relationship. "it was the best sex and it is too bad it did not work out, we fought all the time".
ya know why we fought- because the last many years of up and down and hot and cold- I got stronger motherfucker and called you out on your N behavior. I was a doormat no more. I saw and experienced your sickness and said No More. and this is probably why our sex was so so so good.
but all this talk with my friend led me to look on FB which led me to more info....and the info. surprisingly was that he was not with the OW I feared ( my friend), but another- who it is clear he is not in love with
so here I am tonight, a big drink of vodka. snooping. and now in stupid dumb fantasy amnesia mode. I actually thought of calling him to demand he come over for sex.
and it would be so hot.
don't argue with this please. It is a given for us. it is hot....BUT
the CRASH would be HUGE. Dark, depressing, loss of self esteem, loss of dignity, my words mean nothing to me or to him, I start back at DAY FUCKING 1....I lose credibility with my little girl inside who needs so much protecting.
so I am posting here instead. to get reinforcement. Ya see- this is the strongest addiction I have ever faced- and I know I would have 2 hours of bliss naked with him...but I need to be reminded of the weeks, months, of pure hell that would come after.
My dignity, My soul, my heart is at stake.
strivingforhealing
Say no to the heroin
Thank you Rose. I protected my little girl and did not call!
Its OK but you're still not
Ya went to the dark place,
Been to that dark place...stay away!!!
LMAOOOOO
lmao
something really insulting:
oh, one of "those", eh? Yah,
its more subtle and insidious-
even if he is good in bed, he
Gross but helpful
good for you striving!