He is starting to get to me :(
He is starting to get to me :(
I can feel myself weakening. The N has been "following" me on any social media site he can find me on. God, why doesn't he just leave me the hell alone? I am over 140 days NC and am doing pretty good. I don't think about him every waking moment or sit on the edge of my seat waiting for a text/email/call and thus far I have not responded to any of his attempts to contact me. I do not block him, I do not answer his texts/emails or call him back, I am absolutely silent and do nothing. But he feels the need to "watch" me via any social media medium (and I do not post anything about my feelings or about him).
I have not looked at any of his social media stuff that I could view without him knowing, such as his online photos, tweets, youtube videos (if I "saw" him - that would be the end of my NC - my heart swells when I see him, even if it is a photo), etc. However, this past Friday I inadvertantly (yes, it was absolutely by mistake) read a post of his and it was about me. He misses me. Fuck. And I start thinking it has been over 140 days and he is posting about me. Intellectually I know he is toxic, that his words are just that, words - with no meaning or truth or feeling behind them but my god damned "heart" or more accurately, my PTSD, or cognitive diss is making me want and miss "him" the lies, the mask.
I know my feelings are not real because he was just putting on a show for me and he is simply an actor . . . I am just going through a rough patch.
I love you gals/guys.
Block him on whatever it is
Happy1
Nan
Why not block him? That was
NinjaGirl
Nan
delete, delete, delete you
Wacaet
Nan
Just Remember he is crazy out
Hunter
Nan
me too it's tough
mynewlife2011
Nan