He sent me this letter..
He sent me this letter..
Rebecca,
I chose not to call you back last night because I was Really Pissed off & I wanted a night to think.
1. NONE of my phones received your claimed first call you obviously didn't & / or rang the wrong number.
2. Your Face book conversation was rude & totally out of line. I don’t appreciate childish name calling. I responded accordingly.
3. I am reliable (seemingly unlike yourself) as when I say I will do something I do it. I said I was coming to the party & I don't (at all) appreciate being questioned over and over about it. You appear to have massive trust issues from previous relationships - get it into your head now that I am a new person.
4. Your constant negativity & indecisiveness is really starting to get me down. Stop it. NOW.
5. I just listened to your voicemail from last night so now I am Really Pissed Off. You need to get a mirror & have a look at yourself Rebecca. I haven't changed at all, but your behaviour this last week or so has been really badly negative & down. Plus there is is only so many many times I can try to refute your negative claims. In the end it seems you just aren't listening.
6. I'm actually quite ill - not that you seem to give a shit, as all you talk about are your own issues.
7. You talk of two way streets & who is set in their ways... and then also say "this is how I am & I won't change". Take a good look at that statement Rebecca.
8. Your endless procrastination about the plane trip in December is symptomatic of the issues here, and now in the context of other issues, really bothers me, SO, I'm Really Pissed Off with, and Disappointed in you. You don't take on board my positive comments, you constantly question me, you should re-read (not for the first time) your Facebook and MSN conversations, and see WHO comes across shitty. I said I would come today, & will if you still want me to. The idea of the restaurant that may, or may not be open when we have to be somewhere at 7pmdoesn't work. And right now you are thinking "do I have any good points"? Yes. Many. And previously enumerated. But it is time to sort some of the negatives out. Calm down. Take a chill pill. STOP IT.
I & those I have discussed YOUR issues with think you're not sleeping is highly unusual, & the sleep expert I have consulted said "no wonder she would be negative". You seriously need to fix that. No one survives on less than 5-6 good hours sleep a night, and 7-9 hours is the normal range for adults. That’s all for now. Arguments are inevitable in any relationship (look at Jan & Peter) what is important & most telling is how people (you) react now.
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(2 days later I told him to FO)..
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Thank you for sharing that
Self doubt
Hi Rebecca
Thanks Ellen
Thanks Ellen
amazing how much BS they can pack into one letter
Barbara I just want to say....
phew!
I Lost The Battle ... And Thank God!!!
OMG, that sounds exactly
9 weeks ..good on you
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Bewildered x
I Intinctively Knew I Had to Get Away in my late 20's early 30's
Sullen
Thank you, Rebecca! There
Awesome x
WHY do they do it??
Analytical ! ..And understanding WHY??!!?
I Know Exactly How You Feel
What was the trivial matter that set him off?
The Issue That I Believe Set Him in Motion
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