You are right and I knew better.
The good thing is that now I I'm feeling the same as you. I don't want him anymore. I don't want anyone who doesn't want me, love me or can only be nice for about a week and then its back to being treated like a big pile of sh**. lol
He was just trying to regain power over me. As GirlFriday put it, I have been his puppet and thats how he likes it.
Not happening this time. NC all the way from now on. I know I have said it before and failed but I know who he is now and it ain't pretty. lol
HE HAS NO SHAME!!
Thanks for your support girly!!
It seems like they all have some sort of sexual pervision/kinkyness and wonder if it stems from hatred of women, starting with their mother.Strikes me like he is giving you some type of emotional blackmail
I have been pleasent and nice to him but I am also trying to maintain boundaries with him. He does not like this!! I am so hurt though. If he cared about me he WOULD want to see me. He wouldn't force me to send pictures. I always did before because I was so scared of loosing him. But I am not that person any more.
I know what its like to be loved. This is not LOVE. Any man that really loved me would not threaten me in any way. Especially about sending naked photos.
I just don't know who this person is anymore. How can he be so sweet one minute and so nasty the next?? I DON"T UNDERSTAND!!!
This is the real person. This is who he always was.
That's the hard part to see at the beginning, but this man hasn't and doesn't change. He just pretends. But this is the real guy.
Wow, what a piece of shit. sorry that 's all i can say. If i had had this request from the exN i think i would've had to go and attempt to beat his ass in public. to be so degrading.......wow.
almostlydia
What I noticed is that he told u you needed reduction,didnt like looking at your boobs because they are hot,and beautiful. He wanted u to feel insecure about yourself because he knows there is a line of men that would kill for your 'huge boobs' (im just going off what u said,so I figured they're pretty big,lol),AND if they were so disgusting he sure as hell wouldnt want pics! My ex pulled that same shit w me (opposite story,lol), and I would bet my life he hasnt seen a perky little natural pair of boobs since I left his sorry ass......and yours is obviously still lusting after yours! Dont u dare give him the honor,save them for that man that's gonna worship and compliment u on every part ofyour beautiful body:)sweetsamm
Thanks girly!! That wasn't my post though! But thanks for the support. Her post was really sad to me as I know what it feels like to be constantly ridiculed. He was always saying to me are you staying skinny for me? I only way 113 to 116 llbs for crying out loud. Even that was extremly damaging to my self esteem. If you don't like the way I look, what the heck are you sleeping with me for anyway?
Also, he would even ridicule the way we had sex. I ALWAYS had to be on top and after wards he would say... you werent loud enough. I would litterally have to be screaming my ass off and he still would criticize me. I AM SO FREAKING DONE!!!
LOL, the post responses were so long i guess i got a little confused.....and i'm with you, he's call me fat when i was 105 and too skinny when i'm 100lbs....you can't win with those guys!!ugh..
haha!! You are so right. They are freaking fools. But the best part is, they are never going to find someone as good as we are. They are getting older, fatter and not any richer. (not that I care, I have always taken care of myself), so who is going to want them for their charming personalities?? NO ONE!!! I just remembered he once said to me, I want to fu** a dumb twenty two year old because she will let me do whatever I want to her. Yeah, right!! So disgusting!
First, if a man loves you & has been naked with you---does he realy need pictures? Can't he recall how sexy you look in his mind???
And the THREAT "I won't talk to you unless you do *this*" is not normal! You both can xchange pics if you both agree it enhances your intimacy.
I would stay far away.
Any demand to do XYZ or I won't see you is abuse.
When it's something like THIS, it becomes sexual abuse as well, IMO.
And as someone just said, he would probably refuse to see you anyway, after he got you to send him naked photos of yourself! That's almost a form of rape.
Well, everything they do is a form of rape.
Thanks Jen!!!
ONWITHMYLIFE
He is all about Power & Control
This is the real person.
Wow, what a piece of shit.
almostlydia
almostlydia...
who says that?
Sweetsamm...
oops cherryblossom..
sweetsamm...
cherryb
Emotional Abuse