Is he really a narc or is it me?

everything leads to him being a narc, but I am not perfect either...

From what I understand he will only get worse, and he has been, but I have been pulling away too, because he constantly pushes me away himself and now I am in self oreservation mode. Moot point I guess cause he packed up and split a few days ago, no clue where he is and there has been zero contact. I am hoping that he will continue to pay the mortgage and stay thenhell away!!!!