He RAN away from me today.

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#1 Mar 21 - 2PM
helldweller
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He RAN away from me today.

This morning, by some bizarre chance, I literally walked right into his path as he was walking his foster child to school. I had gone to get coffee and came from behind a hedge right in front of them. He literally grabbed his child and PUT HIM BEHIND HIM, AS IF SHIELDING HIM FROM ME, looked at me for a split second and then RAN AWAY. I don't mean he hurried away. I mean he literallly broke into a sprint, trailing his little boy behind him, and didn't stop until he got to school, a block away. I just stood there with my mouth open in shock. There were a bunch of other parents and kids around and they all just looked at me like WTF?

I don't even know what to say. It was one of the most bizarre things I have ever seen. A fifty-four year old man--a criminal courts judge in one of the most politically powerful cities in the world--sprinting down the street with a six year old to avoid his old girlfriend. And PUTTING THE CHILD BEHIND HIM, AS IF TO PROTECTING HIM FROM ME? AS IF *I* AM THE ONE HE NEEDS PROTECTION FROM?

I mean, I haven't even said anything to the narc in like two months after a few initial sarcastic comments. As you all know, I have wanted to but have not. What the hell is UP with this dude?

Mar 22 - 3PM
ewa
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:)))) You have just reminded

:)))) You have just reminded me with your story, how my exN was running away from me. Literally!!!! We had conversation after we have broken up and i have told him that i do not respect him anymore because of what he has said to me - he started to run as fast as he could, like a small child.
Mar 21 - 7PM
Steph
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WTF? Seriously? lol. I'm

WTF? Seriously? lol. I'm sorry, but what a bloody moron! Like the others said, he was just doing it for attention and trying to make it look as though you are crazy and he must get away from you. What a joke. too bad he didn't trip, fall, and break his nose or knock some teeth out or something. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Mar 21 - 6PM
IncognitoBurrito
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Helldweller

Next time, you should do a little pageant wave, and say,"BUH-BYE then, FUCKING WEIRDO!" Add a huge eye roll, and keep on walking!
Mar 21 - 5PM
Susan32
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Running away

The ex-Psych professor did the SAME THING during the final D&D. I declared my love to him--and suddenly I was the *BAD GUY.* He'd move his seminar from one classroom to another, so I'd have to pursue him. Telling him I loved him... how scary... then he'd do the push/pull of pursuing ME to ask "Did you learn your lesson?" When I met the ex-P's girlfriend at a concert, he went running down the stairs. He physically abandoned her in front of his fellow professors. When she noticed he had gone... she had to run down the stairs to catch up with him. His habit of running away was ridiculed in the senior skit... and since he was in the audience, towards the front, he RAN OUT when one of his male disciples said that yes, the skit was mocking him. I guess I topped him by leaving without a goodbye. He'd brag about how he "ran from ridicule." I'm sure that letter from Dear Old Me mockingly comparing him to my baby nephew (except my nephew is superior in ALL WAYS,just doesn't have professorship&tenure) gave him the runs. RUN, FORREST, RUN!!!!
Mar 21 - 5PM
neverlookback
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OMG It also struck me as FUNNY

RUN FOR THE HILLS there she is, the F COWARD, ya he better run they walk around with a mask on then when it slips they know they have been had - bullets are faster than they could ever run, and one day they may not be able to dodge one.
Mar 21 - 3PM
onwithmylife
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HELLDWELLER

I do not mean to make light of it but it is really comical, as you said some bigwig judge in a big city area sprinting away from you, what a laugh, it is like the EXNarc I spent 15 years with, I live about an hour from him and sent him a nice card to wish him happy Easter and I will NEVER hear from him again, and he is dying from 2 forms of cancer, what I think it is, is the huge amount of guilt they store within them, deep down they must have some clue as to how horribly they treated Us.Look I am still friends with my Ex husband and we have helped each other out, he has No guilt for how he treated me. I often thought why doesn't the narc contact me espcially since he is dying and really knows no one, like i know him, since he moved away 2 years ago, he will go to his deathbed, never contacting me, that /I can guarantee you of..remember they really are scared and frightened 2 year old toddlers in the guise of grownup men and using his foster child as a shield how PATHETIC.
Mar 21 - 3PM
TLSM
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OMG...This is SO TYPICAL! My

OMG...This is SO TYPICAL! My narc used to do similar things. If we were out to dinner and I was upset with him, quietly in public, he'd react like I just kicked him in the balls, GASP and look at me in HORROR like I was going to kill him, to make sure everyone saw this!!!! Did this all the time. His goal was to humiliate me and SHUT ME UP. You know that HE IS NOT AFRAID of you. He did it to make you think he was afraid of you and TO HUMILIATE you. These bastards are such DRAMA QUEENS!!! What a horrible, scary guy!!! What a DICK!!! And his poor kid!!! I am sorry he did that to you. These guys ARE DEMENTED and play VICTIMS and want attention drawn on THEM!!! Do not contact him in any way!!!
Mar 21 - 3PM
Scoop
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Its like theses guys have so

Its like theses guys have so many layers to them its laugherble , we talk about the mask coming off and there is the psycopath standing there, evil spitting psycopath but we dont talk much about what is under the mask of the psycopath and thats 6 year old mummys boy .. if we could consentrate more on the fact that under it all is a very scared little child i think it would help us get over all of the pain soooo much faster . .. Helldweller this is bloody brilliant xxx
Mar 21 - 3PM (Reply to #7)
onwithmylife
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Scoop

I would beg to differ aand say 2 year old toddler, you are giving the narc too much credit of a 6 year old boy, they are more mature!!!haahahah
Mar 21 - 5PM (Reply to #11)
Scoop
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lol ok a two year old who can

lol ok a two year old who can drive heheheheh... love ya .. xx
Mar 21 - 3PM (Reply to #8)
IncognitoBurrito
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owml

Personally, I think it's an insult to toddlers! Haha!
Mar 21 - 4PM (Reply to #10)
onwithmylife
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Burrito and Susan

I stand corrected you are BOTH right, at least a toddler knows that he is just that and at that age, here you have a grown man and I use the term loosely, acting like a toddler, cannot be anymore pathetic than that!!!
Mar 21 - 3PM (Reply to #9)
Susan32
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Toddlers are BETTER!!!

I *SECOND* that!!! I have a year old nephew who shows more empathy, kindness, intelligence, creativity and *AFFECTION* than the ex-Psych prof ever did! He goes around hugging my sister and my brother in-law;he hugs my parents. He'll stand up in his crib, smiling and waving... that's more than the ex-P ever did.
Mar 21 - 3PM
IncognitoBurrito
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Helldweller

Oh, that sounds RIDICULOUS! Like he intentionally wanted others to see him run away from you, to give THEM the impression that YOU must be bad news. He's probably trying to alienate locals from you now. Creepy manipulator.
Mar 21 - 3PM
michele115 (not verified)
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Helldweller...

For as long as I live...the visual of "blanket" and daddy will be ingrained in my mind.... AND this only tops that...OMG... c'mon THIS has to be the pivotal moment where you recognize what a puny, pathetic, piece of man he is... I mean Helldweller...did this not spell CRAZY to you??? AND the visual of blanket being dragged along with the tasslels flowing in the wind...*I presume his blanket has a tassel...don't know why it just completes the picture... I will place a wager that tomorrow, blanket will be fully outfitted in a burka...you mark my words.... LMAO...Oh Helldweller...this has to be the moment where the only thing left to do is laugh!!!
Mar 21 - 2PM
Hunter
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Heldweller

Sorry, all I can do is laugh. When you see such behavior doesn't it make you wonder "what the Hell was I doing with him"? He is one creepy dude! Too bad he didn't trip while running! Idealk
Mar 21 - 5PM (Reply to #3)
Redhead1
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I think mine did that creepy

I think mine did that creepy stuff too. When we were married, he use to embarrass me and our kids with his weirdness. I look back on some of the creepy stuff and shiver. ick
Mar 21 - 2PM (Reply to #2)
helldweller
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Ideal

I know! That's all I can do, too! And I've never seen him run before and he runs like a little girl! I've been shaking my head all day and just laughing. If only the little kids weren't a part of this it would be such great comedy :(