he paid me

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#1 Sep 9 - 1PM
alicat
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he paid me

Ok so yesterday I wrote that my ex narc was going to meet me to give me the money he owes me. I told him not to worry about it I did not need the money. He insisted. Of Course it was supposed to be 200 dollars. I also had things I wanted to give him back, and some things were for his son. So I met him at a gas station today and he quickly gave me 100.00! of course I didn't get the other 100! Whatever! don't need it. Of course he had my Exxon card and key to my house. He did give me those also. I told him I have his things in the back of my car and he jumped in his work truck and said "I will get them later"? What? I thought this was the end! give everything back and be done. After all he text me nasty ugly crap today so I thought he would want his stuff and get the hell out. So freakin crazy. Is he trying to still have ties with me? I should just burn everything and give his ex wife his son's stuff back!!

Sep 9 - 6PM
Happy1
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Because this continues

Because this continues communication. Go dump his stuff someplace and send a note where you left it for him. Over and out. He wants to keep contact. Games games games. End it by doing that and then NC
Sep 9 - 5PM
NinjaGirl
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"After all he text me nasty

"After all he text me nasty ugly crap today so I thought he would want his stuff and get the hell out. So freakin crazy. Is he trying to still have ties with me? I should just burn everything and give his ex wife his son's stuff back!!" Can you mail it COD? I took my ex's stuff to Goodwill, but would never do that with a child's things.
Sep 9 - 6PM (Reply to #9)
Happy1
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I threw a lot of my ex's crap

I threw a lot of my ex's crap away and goodwill. I freaken hate the piss-ant
Sep 9 - 2PM
dazedandcnonfused
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Leave the box on his doorstep

Leave the box on his doorstep and tell him to mail you the check if he ever has enough money to actually pay his debts!!!
Sep 9 - 2PM
Hunter
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Yes predictable " scrambled

Yes predictable " scrambled eggs" Fedex them? Sparrow, you're so nice, I was going to say drive the stuff to the Salvation Army dump and run!!! He didn't take his things just yet, he'ssaving that for later harassment, hoovering and supply! Same guy different body! Hunter
Sep 9 - 2PM
Sparrow
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This is the classic "leave

This is the classic "leave the earrings on the night stand" move....... Yes, he doesn't want them back just yet......an excuse to keep sniffing around you....... Fed-ex them to him and be done with it. Good luck and stay strong!
Sep 9 - 1PM
dazedandcnonfused
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Predictable!

Wow, I could have predicted this without reading it. YES!!! It is a reason to keep in contact with you!
Sep 9 - 1PM
ReneeCar
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Jeeze Louise! How I

Jeeze Louise! How I understand what you are going thru! All the ugliness, so curel so vile! He tells you what a god awful person you are. And then the next day....He says I love you, quit being so mean, really?!!!!! What is up with all that?
Sep 9 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
alicat
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I know! They are crazy! I'm

I know! They are crazy! I'm like just get the hell out of my life! Here is your stuff and he doesn't take it after telling me all that extremely ugly stuff. I can't even repeat it on here. Sorry you are going through the same thing!!!
Sep 9 - 3PM (Reply to #3)
spinning
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Ali, I say

toss it in the trash or put it outside and forget about it. It's just stuff and if he's not worried about it you shouldn't be either. His loss. Too bad. So sad! As Hunter would say, Delete, Delete, Delete. It's all scrambled eggs anyway... Most sincerely, (not) spinning. NOT EVEN A LITTLE BIT TODAY! THE SICK FREAK TRIED REALLY HARD BUT HE COULDN'T TAKE ME DOWN!!

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