he lied about living near me

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#1 Nov 19 - 11AM
AnotherPath
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he lied about living near me

So now I have found out where he is going to live and it's further away in a much more expensive area and place. He lied to the children about living around the corner to upset me probably. He told my solicitor he wanted the children on a week night, so in reality this is not going to happen as he's too far away now. I suspect he has just completely moved on now he has a new girlfriend and her 1 year old. It still amazes me that he has no conscience with the children and hasn't paid them maintenance. He's even said he wants to sign the separation papers asap, changed his tune. Isn't it amazing what a new supply can do to a Narc?

Nov 19 - 8PM
NanC (not verified)
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AnotherPath

They are so quick to lie to their children. You're right, he had no intentions of seeing the children. My exN would say he was coming to get daughter and then never show up. Last Christmas the N couldn't see his daughter (he spent xmas with new gf). New gf dumped him 5 months later. Loser! Let's see how long it takes your exN to get dumped. She will, sooner or later!
Nov 19 - 7PM
agnesmurphy17
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Lied to the Children

That about says it all. Get the maintenance, obviously he can afford it if he's living in an expensive area. Get those papers signed ASAP before he changes his mind or the new girlfriend thows him out!
Nov 19 - 5PM
4joys4
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They love drama.

They love drama.
Nov 19 - 4PM
itreallyisabouthim
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Phew. That is great news -

Phew. That is great news - all except the non payment of maintenance. I wish mine would get a new supply, though I feel awful for whomever it will be.
Nov 19 - 11AM
Barbara (not verified)
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AnotherPath

go after him for the maintenance, legally. screw everything else... he's pathetic. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ My Abuse Information Site Online Coaching & Help