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He keeps putting flowers on my doorstep.

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#1 May 13 - 12AM
freedomgirl
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He keeps putting flowers on my doorstep.

It has been three weeks now since I was D&D ed and now i am getting loving txts and flowers on my doorstep. First it was a small bunch , now they come with chocolates. I am not answering his txts and am trying to keep the NC happening but he wont go away. Do I text him and tell him to go away or do I keep ignoring him. help he is trying to suck me back in.

May 13 - 8AM
findingmeagain
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Thats a form of stalking

Thats a form of stalking report him to the police! got to let him know he doesn't control you any longer .
May 13 - 7AM
Hunter
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DELETE

DELETE
May 13 - 7AM
Deidre40
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I'd stay ignoring him. He

I'd stay ignoring him. He wants a reaction. Even 'thank you' feeds them. It's hard because we are taught to say thank you to be polite, when someone does something NICE. Thing is, this isn't nice. There is an underlying motive. He wants something from you, and this is the bait. IT IS NOT JUST A MERE NICE GESTURE. But...if they are Godiva...I'd eat 'em. :P Stay strong! {{hugs}}
May 13 - 7AM (Reply to #5)
Smitten Kitten (not verified)
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Leave the flowers on the

Leave the flowers on the doorstep to die but eat the chocolates.
May 14 - 7AM (Reply to #6)
Daisyd
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ooooooo SK

I love that advice!!!!
May 13 - 7AM
Smitten Kitten (not verified)
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Watch this Video - Insensitive

Watch the guy in this video and all his hoovering. Pretty much doing what yours is. Classic. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-nrGWwHalCU And then do what she does - ignore, ignore, ignore. NC, NC, NC.
May 13 - 4AM
freedomgirl
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God this only gets better. He

God this only gets better. He has just sent his two sons over to talk to me. They are actually quite worried about his mental state and after talking to them for quite along time they are going to get him some help, mentally. In my opinion he is suicidal and i told them that. This is the first time these boys have had to get out from under neath their dads rule and take charge and it is a big shock to them that he wasnt the person they thought he was either. And NO I didnt eat the chocolates, well not yet anyway.
May 13 - 3AM
michele115 (not verified)
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I agree with Vilde

AND don't eat the chocolates! Hugs~