He just told me "Conversation terminated" and slammed the door! Oh my, i must have been honest! Bad girl!

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#1 Oct 10 - 6PM
blueeyes
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He just told me "Conversation terminated" and slammed the door! Oh my, i must have been honest! Bad girl!

lol. Well, I had a ridulous moment and asked him if he wanted to talk. He said "Sure". I said "Neither of us is happy, we both do not feel well, and it's safe to say that our marriage isn't working out." He said "speak for yourself! And you know I get no sleep, you chose NOW to talk to me? I mean, jesus, everyday you wake up for work and you are sooo loud on purpose. I set my alarm to make sure your coffee is on and you just don't give a shit about me anymore." I sadi, "No, I stopped enabling you and giving you what you don't deserve, there is a difference." He was aggitated and so I wanted to be strong but also safe! I said "look I won't fight scream or call you names, I would like to co parent, I would like to call you and give you an update on GOOD thing about the kids." He said "Conversation terminated!" He proceeds to slam the bedroom door and he has been in there ever since. I hate him so much. I wonder what move to make? I am thinking of a nasty move but I am not vindictive. But that nasty move will ensure him out of our home!

Oct 10 - 8PM
agnesmurphy17
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Divorce Lawyer

This is what you need. You get the children & the house for those children. He moves out. It's as simple as that. And if you think this man is a narcissist, then he cannot co-parent. If anything, he's gonna try to get custody so that you have to support him & the kids. I'd be talking to my divorce lawyer, not him. Don't tip him off.
Oct 11 - 9AM (Reply to #4)
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LISTEN TO THIS!

LISTEN TO AGNESMURPHY!
Oct 10 - 6PM
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What a prince

He's pissed because when you get ready for work you're too loud? I think the key phrase here is *getting ready for work*, which he is not doing because he's shopping for sneakers while you work. What a wanker! Take a deep breath, stay calm and neutral as you can and don't do anything without taking some time to think about it first. Keeping your wits about you is key! You're doing great.
Oct 10 - 7PM (Reply to #2)
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wholeagain

I took a breath and a xanaxx. I'm going to bed and he is in the bed! Ugh! He hates me for what I know about him but I will try to remain indifferent and calm. I can't fake love for him because its gone, it never was there, he is dead so in my head (I'm hard headed fighter) I wanna scream "you pathetic bitch! I got your number and u hate it how pathetic are you? A loser w no job or future clinging onto the life I have in me. Your nobody and nothing." But I won't. Thanks for saying I'm doing great! It means a lot! Ty XOXO