he has a new GF and I have mixed emotions
he has a new GF and I have mixed emotions
This was inevitable. It was a just a matter of time and I am very happy that he has a new GF because it is someone else he can put his energy on to torture one day. It is hard though because the new GF is someone he met when he and I were still somewhat together and trying to work it out. They have known each for over 2 years -- so I do not know how new this is. So if they are a new couple then she hasn't seen his crap yet. If the have been together for a while why hasn't she seen his crap yet. She seems incredibly smart, interesting, self confident and so on. So that is where the mixed emotion comes in. How come he is nice to her? Why was he so mean and cruel to me? Why does he continue to be mean and cruel to me? All I really did was love him. We have a child together, I don't understand how he can be so awful to me. And here is the interesting part -- because he behaved so badly last year I had to file a restraining order on him. The judge moved our exchange site to the police station. He brought his new GF to pick her up at the police station. Doesn't she suspect there might be something off about that? My guess is he is probably getting a lot of love and attention with the victim sympathy card about what I do to him -- that is how he got me.
I don't know. I am happy and confused. There is one thing that I am pretty disgusted by though -- he and his new GF slept i the same bed in the same bedroom as our 3.5 year old daughter and my ex-N will only sleep in the nude particularly when with a woman ... so I am pretty grossed out by that.
Any words from anyone -- as this is the part -- when they find someone that makes you (me) feel like I was the crazy one which he tried to convince me of thousands and thousands and thousands of times. So much gaslighting and now that he has the GF it does lead to more questioning of myself and what really happened. Silly I know.
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Not silly at all