He has his payoff
He has his payoff
Well my problem at the moment is that now I know what has happened to me, and that it was all a game of power and control to him from the very begining,I feel so powerless.
You see if I had known what was happening to me; what i was taking part in, then I obviously would not have done any of it.
To think that he was a predator from the start who just decided it was my time to bring down...to hunt down and go in for the kill after watching me for a long time. He did it perfectly and of course I had no idea until the end which is when i figured what he was. That was what the D&D was helpful for.
So at the end I cried and poured out my heart, left a message on his answerphone crying. Fell into his trap everytime, gave him his high, told him I didn't think I would ever get over this and he said 'you will in time' with no emotion at all.
So now he walks around feeling powerful over me, knowing he succeeded in his mission. No longer am I a mystery to him, i've been had and he has conquered and got bored.
I find this hard to live with the fact that he thinks and knows this; he has no idea that i have sussed who and what he is and i won't tell him.
I don't think i've explained this clearly enough about the bit that bugs me the most. I hope you know what i mean, i just feel stupid, ashamed, duped, foolish. He view me that way now i'm sure but I am getting back to me slowly and these feelings are standing in the way, is it my pride, do i need revenge.
This payoff he has from his time with me will stay with him forever, he will always have achieved his goal with me. I can't do anything about it. it is now part of my history. I just would not have included this in my life had i known any different. I thought i was helping and nurturing a person who needed help to grow bla bla bla..........waste of time that was.
Healing
Big hugs!! I too felt this
calculated
But how he looks at you is
to let it go
A year ago I cried all day
Thats a lot
I am embarrassed that I
takes a long time
I totally get what you're saying.