He came over last night
He came over last night
He dropped in last night after our dinner to see the kids. He didn't call or give any notice. I have been very emotional and fragile over this last 5 days especially hard for me. By heart beat sped up and I instantly wanted to confront him when I heard his voice in the living room, the kids has already seen his car and answered the door. They were so happy to see him. I stook in the kitchen at the sink listening to him tell the kids he missed them.
Instead of having an argumentment, or asking why he didn't call or tell me he was coming by, I went into the bedroom and shut the door. I didn't look at him, I didn't speak to him. I sat on my bed and waited. He stayed for about 30 minutes. I waited to hear him leaving., then I came out. There was no interaction.
i was happy I was able to keep control and stay away from him at the same time. The locks have been changed, and he doesn't know that yet because he hasn't had to use a key to be let in.
I swear, he knew I was having a hard time, I swear he knows. and he came by unannounced, almost like he wants to keep me hurting...I dont' know just a feeling. I did well to remove my self from the situation again. I left him alone with the kids though, some may say that isn't smart because he could just put them in his car and take them.
He lacks even the most basic of courtesy toward me.
well handled
He did it to stay in
NONE of it feels good or right
NLW
Congrats
I am so very proud of you.
Woohoo, love the way you handled this
Good for you !
Good for you
New Life Way
Oh honey....
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