IS HE ANOTHER NARC OR JUST MANIC DEPRESSIVE?

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#1 Mar 3 - 11PM
HopeAgain
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IS HE ANOTHER NARC OR JUST MANIC DEPRESSIVE?

Thank you all for posting in response to my previous post about my relationship with a new possible narc. I was wondering if anyone could tell me if the new guy (didn't even last 3 months and I am only one day NC) is a narc or just manic depressive/bipolar.

He admitted he is on several meds for bipolar...heavy duty stuff. He became distant and strange after only a month after coming on strong very quickly, wanting to meet my kids, spending Christmas with me and talking about marriage...but then he turned on me completely and no matter what I did he had major contempt for me.

I am cutting and pasting some of his emails. Does anyone have insight into whether he is a narc? Basically anytime we had a disagreement and I attempted to communicate with him because I felt bad and uncertain and vulnerable, he would blow it up into a world war 3 and punish me for voicing anything or trying to discuss something. I also questioned him about seeing other people when some girl posted sexy pics on his facebook page. So that's the theme and he is using it to beat me up....Read on!!!!!

Narc or bipolar???

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. u needed some one for the holidays.. you were a drain when i first talked to you..you got worse... and worse.. and pushed me away more and more.. and your right.. yes you cant keep a guy around.. obviously its for a reason.. look in the mirror and be responsible already .. every day was a fucking problem with you..

i could leave your house cool and you would start in 10 min later.. we used to talk about it and i warned you over and over to chill out .. but you coudlent because your.. sick... you cant help yourself.. we were cool.. 20 min later theres that obsessive text.. omg.. i could never deal with that again, icant belive i did as long as i did.. go tlak to someone i feel bad for you , y our so ill you cant help it..your so done already.. its a joke and this is comical..

2.we were cool after u left here the other night .. do u see what it turns into?? do u see how you create this you cock sucker ?? how u dont stop.. how u started this whole thing and how things could have been cool but u couldn't leave it alone for a second ,, you couldn't leave it alone,, its why your last boyfriend hated you to... your hateable not like or love able its who you are.. you should have left it alone.. it could have been cool so here we are .. you did this you created this..

3. why do you see it as picking you apart.. ?? and criticizing you ? all you do is tell me bad things about me .. so im saying them back to you .. its because your a marter and a complainer and a narcissist.. its all about you.. im trying to tell you how you turned me off and pushed me away.. i wrote in detail as to the things you do, which weve discussed over and over.. and for some reason you cant seem to learn and address your neroutic behavior and blame everyone else for your issues..i jsut re read what i wrote in my last email and its all there.. what dont you get ? are you serious with this.. re read it again.. you pushed me away . get it ?? what dont you get ..??

here it is again..
i could leave your house cool and you would start in 10 min later.. we used to talk about it and i warned you over and over to chill out .. but you coudlent because your.. sick... you cant help yourself.. we were cool.. 20 min later theres that obsessive text..

jail? lol.. are u serious?? ill be dead way before that hopefully soon you fucking distorted mess dyke .. search 18-25 on pof.. youll be at home there.

Mar 4 - 6PM
HopeAgain
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Thank you all

Mar 4 - 9AM
Sparrow
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If he is on meds, he is

Mar 4 - 8AM
Redhead1
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He is disordered, not sure

Mar 4 - 7AM
midnight7
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Dear HopeAgain, as said

Mar 3 - 11PM
Deidre40
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i don't care if he's a narc

Mar 3 - 11PM (Reply to #3)
HopeAgain
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But why do I attract people

Mar 3 - 11PM (Reply to #4)
Deidre40
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even if you had a

Mar 3 - 11PM
needing2know
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I'm sorry your had to go