Haven't been here in months, but he married her

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#1 Sep 10 - 3PM
Skb
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Haven't been here in months, but he married her

I haven't been here in so, so long. I don't hav all the horrible obsessive thoughts anymore. I have been NC for 10 months. His choice, thank God, I wasn't strong enough to do it myself. I wish I could have, would have had the strength. But I didn't. He had me in grip for nearly three decades. He called the police twice when I tried to talk to him. I made a mistake....I outed him to his new supply. Told her EVERYTHING. Told her he is a pathological liar. Told her about all his affairs. Told he he is a narcissist. At the time, I WANTED her to walk away so I could have him back. But it didn't work. YOU NEVER "OUT"' A NARCISSIST. AND THE NEW SUPPLY WILL NEVER LISTEN TO THE TRUTH.
So.....he married her last week. He married her because he has been divorced twice. And he is desperate for everyone to think he is normal. I thank God he is out of my life after so many years. I thank God that I didn't leave my husband.....but I am angry. I hurt. I miss his being conned by the smoothest conman to ever live. It felt so wonderful. He was SO good at it.
I have spoken to wife 2 and to a former GF. He won't change....can't change....but, in the back of my mind I wonder. Is he going to be the perfect man now, at 54. I can imagine she is on cloud 9 now. Oh, he is so good at what he does.

Sep 12 - 4PM
missymiller
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About a week and a half ago,

Sep 12 - 6AM
brinamarie
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they NEVER change. he's been

Sep 11 - 3PM
neverlookback
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send her

Sep 11 - 1AM
audrey117
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Yes, out them and you just

Sep 11 - 1AM
talktothehand
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NC v ST

Sep 10 - 9PM
Pumpkin
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So he's married again

Pumpkin

Sep 10 - 4PM
onwithmylife
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skb

Sep 10 - 4PM
Jenna H
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of course not

Sep 11 - 2AM (Reply to #17)
audrey117
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I agree too. They do not

Sep 11 - 7AM (Reply to #18)
talktothehand
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Spot on

Sep 10 - 4PM
Deidre99
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If you have been NC for 10

Sep 10 - 4PM (Reply to #2)
Skb
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We work for the same company

Sep 11 - 3AM (Reply to #3)
Hunter
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And... What about your

Sep 11 - 5AM (Reply to #4)
Skb
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You don't know my story

Sep 11 - 7AM (Reply to #5)
Hunter
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Did I hit a nerve ??Funny

Sep 11 - 7AM (Reply to #15)
Hunter
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The support you're looking

Sep 11 - 7AM (Reply to #11)
Skb
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Consider it changed

Sep 13 - 3PM (Reply to #13)
Goldie
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This is where the problem lies

Sep 13 - 3PM (Reply to #14)
GracefullyFree
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The Truth Will Set You Free But First.....

Sep 11 - 7AM (Reply to #12)
IncognitoBurrito
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You will be

Sep 11 - 7AM (Reply to #6)
IncognitoBurrito
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Where is

Sep 12 - 4PM (Reply to #7)
Skb
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Incognito.....you are right.

Sep 14 - 7AM (Reply to #10)
IncognitoBurrito
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How's it

Sep 13 - 2PM (Reply to #9)
Tinker
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Skb

Sep 13 - 3AM (Reply to #8)
Hunter
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If you were focusing on your