has anyone noticed.. the OW being um.. a clone of you?
has anyone noticed.. the OW being um.. a clone of you?
ive noticed a really disturbing pattern with my narc.
all the other women.. the women he cheated on me with, his new girlfriend, the women he cheated on her with... they are so similar to me. if not similar to me, they seem to slowly morph into some sort of clone of me by his urging..
i feel like i sound rather self obsessed, but i can't help but notice it.. what is with this bizarre behavior?
when i met the first woman he cheated on me with, we were both a bit freaked out.. we looked SO much alike, we could have been sisters. similar faces, similar build, the same red hair.
when the women after this also had the same build, red hair.. i chalked it up to having a type.. we all have one, i guess his is curvy with red hair.
however, it was after i left him that things began to get strange. he started dating a heavier girl with brown hair, who dressed very casually.. jeans and tshirts, no makeup. quite the opposite of me..
im a bigger girl but i dress very feminine to accentuate my curves - big curled, bright red hair, always very fluffy 50s/60s style dresses, makeup always done up. im very into fashion and hair, so dressing up, putting together outfits, doing my hair and makeup is something that makes me feel good about myself and i find to be really enjoyable.
it started with him trying to message me everytime he saw a girl who 'reminded him of me'... this would happen at least once a week.
however, slowly his girlfriend has been turned into some sort of disturbing clone of me.. buying her dresses in the girly style i wear... encouraging her to wear makeup..he even has gone so far as to ask her to draw for him.. the girl has not an ounce of artistic interest.. i was an art major and drawing and painting was always a huge hobby of mine and i frequently give those close to me artwork as gifts..
however, what i discovered today takes the cake. turns out he encouraged his brown haired girlfriend to get her hair done. at my old stylist. .. with my exact cut and style, and my color.
WHAT IS WITH THESE FREAKS??
hmmmm
My narc is my clone!
The description of who he
Well this is interesting...
clones
Clone wars
I will letcha know
It's more like, YOU look
The OW was a clone of me and him... a trifecta???
miinx
Clones
I have noticed
yep...just like me he said....
Aceonelady
mine were completely opposite..
minx