Has anyone else has the realisation that they might be the narcissist?
Has anyone else has the realisation that they might be the narcissist?
I saw my own narcissism a long time ago.
And I know as a child I was criticised and still am in many ways by my family.
It makes me critical now and I open my mouth without thinking too much about what message I am conveying to others, its like I am socially inept sometimes.
I am way too open too and I do have a a very deeply empathic soul but sometimes I think those of us who are hurt and hurt time and time again by the society we live in, the people around us, the cold disconnected disharmony we come to find ourselves in can make us become more like the exact type of person we try to avoid.
I have always said to my narc that I dislike the way he 'corrects my speaking'
And just today I realised I do that to others.
its true that you do receive back from the universe that which you give out.
I noticed my aunty who has a west country accent says 'smally' instead of 'smelly' and I pointed it our. I only did this becasue I had done it to my sister wk b4 with my mum. And my sister and my mother were ok with it (bit closer relationship I guess) but when I pointed it out to my aunty, there was a definite embaressing feeling. I think I may have ADD pr some type of mental defictit of attention to the dynamics of polite conversation. It was utterly embarassing becasue I relaised that I look like the foul person I want to avoid and I must seem to be to others.
So now I know why I am suffering this painful relatiinship becasue I am only reflecting the type of relationship I deserve. I bet most of you are not like me? I bet most of you dont deserve what you suffer but I think I am behave in a foolish, rude, knee jurk reaction way to others. I dont think first and then get surprised when others judge me, ctiticise me and dislike me.
I have friends and I put work into my friendships and give of myself loads to causes. I work in a role where I support people with disabilities and I work voluntarily for the NCT and I try to be kind to others but I think its the thoughtless, spontaneous crappy side of my natures that is little harder to control. I guess I am not a total narcissist because I sometimes notice what I have done and it does make me feel very bad.
(narcs rarley are self relfective)
But how much stuff do I do that I dont notice and dont change and just goes into the etha as bad energy waiting to come back and manifest as a karmatic repercussion?
I wish I knew how to become a nicer person or to work at having better social skills?
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He accused ME of being the Narc...
When I wouldn't be a doormat...
I also think that because we
I thought I was the narc too
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
Everyone has narcissistic traists
are we the narcissists?
Here the big diffrence
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Thank you all 4 this!!
What a complete arse