Guess Who I Spent The Weekend With?

I don't want to sound too happy here WTF??? But I just had the most amazing weekend. Friday afternoon I was just sooo tired of stressing about my NH, Psychopath and I decided to take you guys advice from the board. Do something fun. So I called My 2 grandchildren (ages 3 and 7 months) 9 nieces (ages 24, 24, 17, 14, 10, 9, 8, 2, and 8 months) 2 nephews (ages 7, and 1)
And my mom.

We had a sleepover just to celebrate my life. We had popcorn, fruit, spaghetti and meatballs (which i cooked) ice cream, chips and to top it off i baked cookies! We played the x-box lets dance game and x-box sports and then we watched Little Shop Of Horrors. (a family favorite, we know all of the words and songs).

This is a big step for me as I have been isolating myself since the D & D and ending the relationship. I had so much fun and I danced and acted silly with all of the children and we finally went to sleep at 4:00 in the morning.

I could hardly move when I woke up the next morning. (I am 47, so not use to all of this action).
IIt has been 5 months and I know that I have a long way to go but I am finally feeling like the fog is lifting and I noticed today that I haven't really cried (I mean a good cry) In maybe 2 weeks.

The only negative thing that happened during the party was that my NH called our son on his cell phone (I am strictly NC) and must have heard all of the noise and asked our son what was going on. I heard our son tell him it was a sleep over with all of the family and guess what?
He had the nerve to ask to speak to some of the nieces and nephews. I was going to get upset but i remembered NC and walked out of the room. When i went back My granddaughter who is 3 was talking to him then she started playing with the phone and hung up on him yipeee!

We resumed our sleepover and had a great time. Now i don't want to think that I am done with my recovery but I am learning to take every good day as it comes and I am learning, training myself to have a good time without him and it feel so good.

Thanks for all of your support. This board is truly saving my life along with my higher power.