a good therapist will help this process big time!!!
a good therapist will help this process big time!!!
I read alot of you - are hesitant about therapy. I am telling you- that a good therapist who understands the emotional trauma you have been through IS key to moving through and moving on. Make your healing your #1 priority! this means for me- rather than movies or dinner out- I pay a good therapist hundreds of $ a month. It makes a difference! friends and this forum are not enough I believe.
A good therapist helps you heal your old wounds that got you in this N. relationship in the first place. they help re parent you- give you the unconditional love, acceptance and allowance that you deserved as a little girl. They also teach you how to re parent YOURSELF so that you never get into one of these gut wrenching dynamics again.
I look at the $ I spend on my compassionate wise therapist AS IMPORTANT as the food I buy, the heat I pay for in my home, the gas in my work car....It is VITAL to propelling me to a place of deep healing.
Others may disagree because they have never had the experience of working with a very skilled compassionate conscious therapist...Well, I am and have and I can tell you- having this support can make the difference between cutting the cord with the N. 100% or going back to more hell.
Just my two cents. Love and Blessings.
I agree ...
I support this statement
Yes I have made this same
striving for healing, you are so right
therapy
for me a good therapist understands childhood wounding
You are right on with this
Drazia