Good Morning

It's morning where I am. My exN used to send me good morning texts. Everyday I would know where I stood with him before I got out of bed (if he wasn't in my bed). The texts might be in all caps, have exclaimation points, come later, come earlier, lower case, contain a term of endearment. Whatever...it all had meaning and indicated to me what to expect from him that day. I still miss those texts, because even if they were lower case and didn't arrive until almost noon I still had contact with him, especially after a d&d. I got something from it.
Well, today it isn't that way. I get to wake up and decide for myself that I am going to have a narc free day. I can make plans and not have them sabataged by the n. I can decide for myself to maintain emotional sobriety and have balance in my life. I can take care of myself and my responsiblities without critisism or blame. I can deal with my kids without his attempted distractions for attention. I can count on not being put down or abused by anyone in my life because I don't hang out with people like that anymore. I'm pretty sure it's gonna be a great day. I wish the same to all of you. You deserve it! Was it Spinning or Used or someone else that told me this may happen to me if I stayed NC? THANK YOU SO MUCH!! (note all caps and exclaimation).