Golden words from Goldie

"Many Many woman here are under the delusion that if, you do what a man wants, he will love you more or respect you more. WHEN the TRUTH of the matter is the EXACT opposite, he will respect you less. A woman with strong boundaries is loved and respected far more than a woman without. I have seen this fact played out time and time again. There is no doubt about this fact to me.

This is one of life's secrets, that some women know and GET, and many do not. If I can impart this one fact on any of you here, then I have done my job."

Lots, of love,
Goldie

I thought this short passage was well worth posting again as a separate post today. I had read it before and just reading it again rang a lot of bells. Where this truth SHOULD be something all women understand and live by, I fear that this group as a whole probably hasn't. I know I haven't. I was much too willing to do as the exN expected me to - and that's how lost myself, in every way.

Until now.

I sincerely hope that this lesson has now been tattooed into my head and heart!