Games they play
Games they play
I haven't been here in awhile. I was busy doing some serious NC and trying to focus on me and then spring came and....aarrggghhh, I suck! I fell back in because I'm a sucker for romance and he was trying sooo hard. So here I am in the hater phase again. Disgusted with him. Disgusted with me. Disgusted with the games. His games. The ones he's innocent of, of course. Can't believe I was sooo easily pulled in (I was telling myself 'hey I can use him. F-it. I can maintain distance'...not so much.) I became angry. At me. Him? Mostly me.
My favorite game: I get irritated at his total lack of empathy. Feeling. I call him on it. He says 'Wow okay gee I'm sorry...I didn't mean to come off that way'...combined with that sweet sincere face and awesome kisses and awesome sex.
My Dad gets sick the next week. I tell him I'm scared. Worried. He says nothing. He says 'Wow it's so hot this morning...off to work...ttyl'
Ow. It feels like I got punished for wanting support, this game. It sucks. I tell him so.
I get; 'I'm sorry I was a dick'.
My response; 'Everyone is a dick sometimes. So am I. My goal...to find the right dick. The one that works 4 me on a broad scope. I'm thinking we have needs that don't quite jive. I don't want to do the cycle again. I'm thinking I would probably rather rip my face off'.
That's the last thing I said to him. NC. I'm out. He responded, I promptly deleted. Everrrryyy single one. Done. He's not even a good f-buddy. He has no feelings.
Your absolutely right. If
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
Pushmepullyou
The jealous game
Wow! I give you so much
"You baffle me constantly"
I have seen this happen